Natural Freedom

Hey Kidd and Grinus,

after reading The Kidd's last story,

something hit me on a more deep level, I want to make sure I got it right so this question is more for clarification...

When we talked about the value theory (in the 'treasure chest') we said that a woman is only with you for your value and men are only with women for their value. But we also said that generally:
women get more value from the relationship than the man.

So let me see if I got this right (generally speaking):

After you got the girl and let's say you even married her-

the man still has more value to give in the relatioship. One of the main reasons is:

since women are more emotional they require more 'maintenance' which is a lot of energy (you need to be pimp tight, have control over the relationship, lead and etc...). If you don't focus and remember who you are and what you want- the woman might leave you OR control you OR manipulate you.

Us men on the other hand: we are not so hard to please. All we want (generally speaking) is good food, sex and to be left alone to do the things that we love (such as playing video games, having a drink with our friends or whatever else someone likes to do...).

generally speaking: we don't need a lot of 'maintenance' from the woman, we just need a lot of space (not woman spaceships... )

(the woman doesn't have to be pimp tight, have control over the relationship, lead and etc...- which is a lot of energy. And again- generally speaking: most men are not out to leave OR control OR manipulate the woman as long as they are getting good food, sex and the woman let's them have their space).

So that is why generally speaking: Women get more value from the relationship or marriage?

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Women are (generally speaking) high maintenance...period. The steps I am taking with my girl are considered by some to be rather extreme, but I'm really pushin the envelope with her to see if I can in fact decrease her inherent neediness to a level that is practically a moot point. We shall see.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

David X is correct...you must be forever vigilant. That said, in the grand scheme of things, my girl doesn't need much work at all...her foundation is already quite compatible with me. I'm just ironing out the little things.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

thanks Kidd, sorry I wanted to push the edit button and I pushed the X button that deleted my post
I'm using my Iphone now...

anyway: for those who read The Kidd's reply:

I mentioned in my deleted post that David X pointed out that:
you always have to be vigilant even after you get married (which is still 'maintenance work')

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Ummmm you also said that my girl needs a lot of work there, ShitZebra.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

you said you had to pull her out of the matrix kicking and screaming ShitHorse

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Last I checked, EVERYONE gets pulled out of the Matrix kicking and screaming, ShitCamel...sometimes I can still see YOU squirming.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

getting the girl is easy, maintaining that standing is the work.

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

I don't know just doesn't make sense to put a lot of work into a girl....sure they're nice for a bit but then I bored and want something different....usually within a couple weeks.

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Just keep on livin'.

Honestly, I'm not even putting in much work...I just give her enough space to do the work herself.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

, still doin it wrong I see

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

I respectfully disagree.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Prodigy wrote:
getting the girl is easy, maintaining that standing is the work.
us wrote I respectfully disagree.

, it's ok if you do.

but, could you expound a bit when you get the time to please

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

It ain't easy, but it ain't hard either.

Every time I can remember getting a bitch. I just giving her what she needed.

A bitch only needs a few things too.

food, water, security (shelter), and a place to put some energy into (the empty hole you call a heart).

There is always something specific to a bitch that she needs to be psychologically O.K.

For example, have you ever seen a female that's walking around with her head down all the time?

That bitch specifically needs someone to believe in her and her potential. That kind of girl is so great because she'll do anything for the man that gives her that.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

I see what you did there

me too!

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim