It has probably be said many times, but it really tilted this time : WE ATTRACT WHAT WE ARE !
So, you want a girl with high self-esteem ? Guess what if you don't have one you can't ...
You want someone who loves you -> LOVE YOURSELF
You want to be happy with another -> BE HAPPY ALONE, WITH YOURSELF
Now I understand more why YOU (you guys on this forum) attract "keepers" (understand : the best girls there are) whereas others (common people, and PUA not to mention them) attract "whatever they attract".
If you want to have the BEST girl (in your opinion), you have to HAVE THOSE SAME QUALITIES
It's because it cannot be otherwise, it's the vibe, the energy, the "wave" ...
First, we will draw a simple parallel with a piano. Imagine that all piano keys have
been pulled away and the strings have been misplaced. How do you find a string that
sounds at the 440 Hz frequencies? You might have already guessed – you will need a
tuning fork that sounds at the 440 Hz frequency. If we are near the piano with this
tuning fork and hit it with a hammer, a string having the same frequency will begin to
sound. You will even see the vibration with your eyes. Useful, isn’t it. You need not
check every string and the method allows finding the right string instantly, without
checking all the strings.
That is why there can't be just ONE girl for you, there are every girl with that "same" vibration that are for you.
Another thing, is BALANCE : That is why you will find a masculine guy with a feminine woman, and a feminine guy with a more masculine
WOman (Fixed).
The point you want to get to, is being (or accepting you being already) complete (with your feminine part as well), loving yourself, your life, getting your shit together ... and what can stop you now ???
Any comments ?