Why is it accepted here that it's okay a man ends up alone but not a women?
Edit:Fuck-the answer might be Marquee Value.
That's more like it!
(Although there's a little more to this, imo - still, good going
that's the forever alone issue which I could work through but I want an answer to my question first.
Have you read the contents of this site IN FULL? If you haven't, you should. I know it's daunting, and shit that's mindblowingly revealing about one topic can be in a thread on another topic, but it's worth it.
Actually, when I really started getting into this site, I wrote down most questions that I wanted to ask Kidd!! and 'Grinus as they popped in my mind while reading threads. Once i'd read EVERY thread on this site, I looked again at that list of questions (it was long as fuck
), and at that point I knew the answer to some of them.
What about the rest? Well, I had learned enough at that point to know that THEY WEREN'T WORTH ASKING.
(Didn't stop me from asking some 'redundant-ass questions' in the interim, though).
Tip: any post that seems totally mystifying to you at the time, simply bookmark it and come back to it later. At least that's what I did.
I've been having "daydreams" if I shunned a girl that choose me because she wasn't (physically) attractive for me I would regret it. that's the forever alone issue which I could work through
You should. To me this relates to one of the main reasons why so many men nowadays get into marriages where, after a few years of Hell By Nagging And Mindfuck, they get royally fucked over in divorce court.
I'll soon be going on one of my 'hermitages' (relates to what you were asking about, btw
), so I won't be on this site for a day or two. Then again, I suspect that you'll have more reading to do than questions to ask.