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Author:  Sniper [ Fri May 13, 2011 7:48 am ]
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http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_ ... -dead.html
Author:  StephenP [ Fri May 13, 2011 2:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is The PUA Dead? nice artical
Hmmm, very interesting -

The funny thing though is that all the Mystery followers were trying to be something they are not to get women.

Five years later, and the article is now talking about being more like Adam Lambert and incorporating more feminine characteristics to "tame down" the alpha male, pua front.

Any way you look at it, it's still TRYING to get something from women

If only they could realize there is a whole 'nother paradigm out there if they would just let go of needing women, of trying to get women, of wanting things outside themselves in order to be happy and ok...

Then they might have to start acting "AFC" to keep some of the hordes of women away that are constantly and relentlessly pursuing and trying to get them :lol:
Author:  Sniper [ Fri May 13, 2011 3:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is The PUA Dead? nice artical
StephenP wrote:
Hmmm, very interesting -

The funny thing though is that all the Mystery followers were trying to be something they are not to get women.

Five years later, and the article is now talking about being more like Adam Lambert and incorporating more feminine characteristics to "tame down" the alpha male, pua front.

Any way you look at it, it's still TRYING to get something from women

If only they could realize there is a whole 'nother paradigm out there if they would just let go of needing women, of trying to get women, of wanting things outside themselves in order to be happy and ok...

Then they might have to start acting "AFC" to keep some of the hordes of women away that are constantly and relentlessly pursuing and trying to get them :lol:

I agree, the problem however is; that for some guys who never had a woman - it's hard to let go of wanting them. It's mainly due to years of social conditioning that a woman and sex is so great. Many people realize that it's not a big deal only after they had it.

But there are some guys who can realize it even if they never had a woman- but not the mass of guys unfortunately...
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Fri May 13, 2011 3:26 pm ]
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Then they might have to start acting "AFC" to keep some of the hordes of women away that are constantly and relentlessly pursuing and trying to get them.
Haha!...been doing this for YEARS!...ESPECIALLY around insecure male friends of mine whose girlfriends fancy me. :lol:
Author:  StephenP [ Fri May 13, 2011 3:30 pm ]
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You're right it is hard for those guys (but paradoxically it's not - I did it [took me till almost 22 to get a girl], and I think The Kidd said he did it too, while in the military or something)

It's simple but not easy

For those guys I would say to ponder: What if I was destined to never ever get a girl or even a girls attention in my entire life? Could I accept this if it were the case? How would I live my life from the point of acceptance on?
Author:  Alchemist [ Sun May 15, 2011 2:02 am ]
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StephenP wrote:
For those guys I would say to ponder: What if I was destined to never ever get a girl or even a girls attention in my entire life? Could I accept this if it were the case? How would I live my life from the point of acceptance on?
I inadvertantly did this years ago, during that time I was way more comfortable with girls and I made friends with a few of them but dismissing the idea of them being attracted to me probably blinded me to opportunities that might have been there, not dwelling on the past but looking back, who knows. :lol:
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