Interesting post and discussion which reveals a lot.
To me, sex is not a must. It is not what I am focussed on.
To the women it is, given time this grows more and more within them.
Let them worry about how to get it out of you, rather than chasing it from them.
Develop yourself as a man and be happy with your life without women.
I am really curious Peregrinus and Kidd, to see if you got to that point after having an abundance of sex. If you have sex then it is not a must, but if you don't, then you want it and move towards chasing for some, well because you aren't getting any.
Would this change if you wanted sex but weren't getting laid?
Curious to hear your thoughts.
I'm still trying to figure this question out and what you are asking. My answer is below.
If you're not a virgin then you know what sex feels like, and you know what you're missing out on. Really understanding sex and not putting it on a pedestal and consequently not putting women on a pedestal builds your world in a better place. Every time I blow down to 0 bitches I stop and think to myself, "Damn, life is good. I have nothing to stress. I already experienced getting laid. I'd be better off without these bitches on my nut sack."
Before I was fucking regularly and was still a virgin I had a similar mindset. This shit doesn't matter and I thought to myself, "I haven't fucked a girl yet so I don't know what I'm missing out on. I'll get the pussy when I'm ready for it. I'd probably be better off without women."
To a certain extent, after I really had a mindset change and started fucking girls I really started believing that I would be better off without women. The way I treat women now is so psychologically damaging but so personally empowering for them that I know they will never forget me, and they could possibly become better women for knowing me.
I sleep good at night knowing the two aforementioned facts.
I sleep good at night knowing my females are starting to give me gifts now and want to see me live comfortably.
I sleep good at night knowing that I've given the women I've been involved with the best sex they ever had.
I sleep good at night knowing that these women wish they could be more than just friends with me.
I sleep good at night knowing that these women are thinking of ways to have a better time with me.
I sleep good at night knowing that I'm working as hard as possible to improve my life.
I sleep good at night knowing that I'm making good connections with honest, hard working, upstanding people.
I sleep good at night knowing that I'm not just dreaming of my best reality anymore and that I'm building it from the ground up.
I sleep good at night knowing that life has is downsides and upsides and that I can weather the storms and ride the waves of success.
I sleep good at night........