I have already talked about this but when I read this post by 'The Kidd' (as a reply in one of the threads) it really struck a chord in me:
The Kidd:
I'm dead fucking serious...I've been propositioned and fondled without my consent more times than I would care to elaborate on...but no, it's not women's fault...it's SOCIETY'S.
Get real. The problem with the world in general is no one wants to take responsibility for SHIT anymore. Stop giving these bitches a free pass on society's dime...they decided to play so when the time comes, they are just as liable and therefore MUST PAY.
And TML, for me it's not a belief...it is a fact of MY life.
Yes The Kidd is right. Did you notice that some women can get away with 'murder' and yet sociaty will still say that they are sweet and good and it's not their fault while if a man does the same- it's all his fault.
If a woman is acting like a bitch she should not get a discount or an auto forgiveness because 'she is a victim of the social matrix'.
Because women are treated as victims of the social matrix they don't take responsibility for anything and act like their shit doesn't stink.
When I was in my Realm days I used to think: oh poor women they are all victims of the social matrix, I have to forgive them. Even the ones that act bad I have to forgive- they are all victims of the matrix
And then you have people like Zan glorifying women and saying that everything is the men's fault.
Zan said on one of his DVDs that women have shields because men are playing games.
well the whole games and PUA stuff was created because women are not acting like women anymore so guys were looking for a way to get through to them somehow....
so bottom line: not all women are bitches or bad so women DO have a choice.
If men forgive them because they think they are just victims nothing is ever going to change.
Don't give bad women a free pass- if they are bad it's their fault and their fault alone.
Thanks Kidd for putting it into words in a clear way