I try to base my actions on reads, if a girl is overtly flirting with me at a bar I assume she is drink hunting. She is guilty until proven innocent.
I'm naturally a generous person, and I will be generous unless I feel I'm being taken advantage of. A lot of times I'll give a girl the benefit of the doubt. However she is expected to pay next time, if not then I'm like "this isn't what I signed up for" credit for this line goes to Kidd!!
Tightness with money, indicates a tightness in character. The key is balance too much and you appear weak and beta like your trying to buy them.