Scarface wrote about something that happened to me in the past.
Scarface:
I found this paragraph to be so true, from my experiences also.
PUA advice fucked me up, on this one. Because it made me think, that I can change a chciks mind by all kinds of pua game tactics.
Yet in the end. I noticed, i only managed to get freaky with women. That actually showed interest, from very early on. And that I never managed to covert a girl, that was (just) being firnedly but didn't show signs of (sexual) interest. I can't believe the amount of time I wasted on those type of women, trying to covert them.
Lately after all the great posts we have about the observer I made peace with the fact that you can't use logic or tricks to covert a girl to be attracted to you unless she was already attracted to you in the first place or at least had some attraction on some level to begin with...
can you imagine let's say: Katie Holmes has 0 attraction for Tom Cruise and he starts to neg her or do other PUA stuff on her like lowering her value. She would probably tell him to fuck off or something
here is one, Tom to Katie:
Nice to meet you I'm Tom... You know, you look great but your shoes are ugly. Can I get your number?