I don't know, but this comes to me as something yours only - I don't experience this, lack of interest, yes, but arrogance, nope.. I think Altair didn't mention any arrogance too
Are you sure this is not your projection of something ?
'arrogance' can be interpreted in different ways....
it doesn't necessarily mean the woman in question will tell you to fuck off, turn her head the other way or something like that...
some women show lack of interest (even politely) and then send this 'vibe' of:
'I have so many options and you have to prove you are worth my time'
for example-
I dated this girl once who was polite but as soon as she heard that I make less money than she thought- she said the next day that she is not interested (politely) but had this 'vibe' of:
'I have so many options...you are not worth my time'
that girl was a 7 on the looks scale, not very bright and 32 years old.
so I told her: ok, good luck
@Alchemist
it's a feminist society now (with so many weak men) + all the electronic communications: so women know they have loads of options. And yea, sometimes arrogance comes with it.
Once in a while it also makes me angry, It just doesn't bother me as much anymore because I understand that this is how it is...
I can't change the way society is so I focus on myself and what I like to do.
I had some good success lately
but then a few flops....
But you know: I see so many unhappy married (and divorced) Men all the time.
So I know that there is no guarantee that once you find a girl you get along with and even if you get married- you will be forever happy.
maybe that's why it doesn't bother me that much anymore
Edit: I also did a lot of inner work on my emotions so it's not just something that can be worked out in the mind.
@Altair
I think Wonka would have said: