this was originally a question I had for Star_Above, what he meant when he said: women who act nice are insecure (This discussion was not about 'X-factor' girls),
here is the thread and Star's reply is number 4 (The 4 types of "nice"):
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=2607
1. You have something she wants or wants to be part of - Admiration - (She values your value) so she's nice to you to get it (Remember Kidd talking about the bum and Prince William in Pimposophies).
2. It makes her feel good to be nice, so she's not nice to you for you but for her.
3. She has low self-esteem and sees you as above her so shes nice to you to make up for what she sees as her shortcomings to get you to like her. (This kind of mingles with #1, but she doesn't have to have low-self-esteem to be part of #1).
4. If she can lose some other type of value by not being nice to you; like if she works in a store and really values her job and $$ and she'll lose it if she's not nice to the customers
then in here we talked about X-factor girls being nice:
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =15&t=1972
Your x-factor would have you on a pedestal and be in awe of you...a courteous girl may just be like "Ok have a nice day, good chat"
(post number 10 on this ^^ thread)
But before reading these you must understand the value theory-
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =17&t=1396
we also had a discussion that relates to this topic about 'what's behind women commenting on each other's photos on facebook'
the reason the girls are commenting and saying "Oh babe you look gorgeous" is because they see the girl as really high value, and if they get the girl to like them and be friends with them, they will think that they will be seen as high value as well by others...
The best is the ones hitting Marquee Value...they'll put a new pic up every day, sometimes twice a day. Where as the younger chicks have symps vying for attention, they broads ONLY have girls commenting...how depressing must THAT be?
The Full discussion is here:
If I find more related posts or threads I'll keep adding them here....