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but what anchors this?, I am diving as deep as possible to try to connect the boat to the anchor! I agree that it seems that there are different levels to go to. I don't know why I'm hesitant about going deeper.
but I am trying to make my mind up!???
I really can't understand what I fear?

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I think it's pretty damn obvious.

YOU FEAR LOSS...because you feel invested in the relationship as well. You are also invested in her parents approval of you...you don't want to disappoint them.

I was with my baby mama for almost 6 years...it was one of the hardest things I ever had to go through. But I just kept telling myself to remember that IT ONLY GETS BETTER...and it HAS.

When you no longer have fear of losing something....you then gain EVERYTHING.

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is it that I don't know enough about this female after 3 years or is it that I am just into her because she is insecure and I want to seem big?
Pere'G,
I think a lot of guys would also be insecure and make something out of it.
Today a woman thought me the fundamentals/essence of Nature, and how it needs to flow.
I think I am trying to Control this woman's energy too much instead of just allowing it to flow around me.
It really just struck me now,
yesterday she told me that she picked out an outfit to wear home ( she's leaving for a while), let's just say it's something better worn at night out with me lol.
anyway, I said "you ain't leaving my home, going to look for ya daddy lookin like that"
she asked me why .
I told her I didn't have to give her the reason, she said a reason didn't matter, but she was still gonna wear her outfit.
I said, Ok.
she is continuously showing me that she doesn't value my Values.

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Kidd, I really don't like to lose!
it is true that I kinda want to be the Hero of this story.
"Little NLK, faces the beast and conquers it to save the Princess"

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*barfs*

In this case, the princess IS the beast.

...and as far as that outfit home is concerned, that just shows insecurity on your part to her whether you think you are or NOT. You still have a lot to learn, my friend.

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BINGO! Very possibly... either big or 'the hero' as you also said, or both BRAVO!
It seems what has been obscured in the shadows is starting to come into the light.

Can you control a river?
When men try to change the course of a river, it may follow their path for a while, sooner or later nature gets its way and it finds its way back to its natural path. This in my mind is a strong disqualification on her part.

Ignore it at your peril.

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You do already know the answers, what you have posted in this thread show me that.
The problem is that you are not listening to yourself or your gut, for some reason your head thinks it knows better.

You have to ask yourself if it really does?

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Pere'G, in this case it doesn't.
I don't know why, but I think I take the saying " use your big head, instead of your little head" a bit toooooo seriously sometimes.
where's that beer that you offered?

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Prodigy

I'll tell you something:

I had a female friend (not a girlfriend) that me and her were very good friends at the time. She used tears many times as a way to get what she wanted and made everyone beleive that she was a poor angel.

well, later it turned out she was a master manipulator and used tears to make people beleive that she is pure and good while underneath she was bad in nature and very manipulative.

My ex-girlfriend tried to use tears twice to get what she wants and saw that it doesn't work on me. However the point is: trust your Gut

sometimes a woman will cry because she really feels bad and not because she tries to manipulate. So I'm not saying that we should be like stone everytime a woman is crying But I do say that men need to learn to trust their gut- see if it's real or just a manipulation to get you to do something she wants...

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