You see shit in the strangest places sometimes, once you learn the inner workings of human dynamics you can't help but analyze it everywhere you go...so here's something weird but encompasses everything we talk about in very simple terms.
I was with a girl today and I broke down and agreed to watch "a walk to remember" with her. I've you've seen the movie you'll understand the character I'll describe, if not, well it's really up to you if you wanna watch a cheesy romance movie, although it is pretty good
The female character Jaime played by Mandy Moore has so many of the pimp characteristics we talk about it's not even funny...and the dude falls balls out head over heels for her obviously. When watching this movie the big 2 that popped into my head (and then the 80/20 principle popped into my head because broken down this is all you need for female interaction to create attraction for the most part) were....
1. She loved herself unconditionally, which if you truly do creates a confidence and vibe of contentment that can't help draw women to you. Forget trying to act alpha and "confident", if you truly love yourself you will display these characteristics naturally and not look like you're "trying too".
2. She rewarded good behaviour and punished bad behaviour.
That's it!! In my opinion those 2 dynamics are the 20% actions that will give you the 80% results. Now granted some bitches are gold diggers, etc.. But if you really love yourself 100% unconditionally, you are going to display so many things naturaly that women can't help but be attracted to you.
Also, if you love yourself you will reward good behaviour and punish bad behaviour naturally but this is what will give women emotional rollercoaster and tension loops too keep them crazy for you withouth trying to neg or push/pull or any other sort of shit, and the threat of losing you because you stand up for yourself to her (Again, because you love yourself) will keep them sort of in fear and desperate.
Hope I put what I was thinking down ok, really 100% loving yourself unconditionally is THE most attractive thing there is, it is the key to this whole thing!