as Pokemon Trainer asked, was his "blasting" too much
In my view, summed up in one word: YES!
Less is more...let their imagination do the work for you.
I agree fully with this.
I am always talking about space, not just physically.
You can also create space in their minds.
Women fill spaces, their imagination will come up with things to fill that space, much better than you filling it and leaving them no space.
The Pokemon Trainer wrote: |
Ha! Bloody hell I thought that might be the case. Guess I blew it
So quick to admit defeat and give up. When there is nothing to 'blow' in the first place.
Ease off, give her some space (I DO NOT MEAN STOP TALKING TO HER, look into what I say).
for reference, your post:
The Pokemon Trainer wrote: |
Anyway, I know she's interested and we've made these exchanges before (but not as sexual) and it always end with her getting hot and then freaking about about feeling like a "slut" or a "booty call" and jumping ship.
Give her some space, do not close down the space around her.
Front blasting is not always about being brutal, there are times when subtlety and calibration are useful. There is also a time and place for giving her space to fill, NOT FILLING IT YOURSELF.
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PereG, Kidd, you two are like fricking Psychics. you tend to know exactly what the other is thinking.
Funny that.. More than one person has commented on it.
You should read some of the early posts for amusement one day, when you have time.
There is a reason why, there always is, if you look you will see it.
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PereG, what is your take on my situation also
There is an element of competition there. Not OVER you, between the two women.
There is also an element of you not going for it because of your girlfriend, which creates a great dynamic for her to play off (in a good way).
Also there is an element (as always) of she will have heard many things about you from your girlfriend and she is possibly intrigued by what she has heard/seen.
Many things are going on, give her some space, she will show her intentions.
Let her play and enjoy her playing, experience what is happening.
Along the way throw out a few lines with bait on them, like a patient fisherman, don't watch over them, leave them be. If she is, you will know.. If she is not, you will know..
Either way, you will find out.. And she will enjoy the difference from what she is used to.