Since I've left the seduction community and unlearning what hasn't served me, I've taught myself to simplify all these terminologies that I would have otherwise probably never been made aware of had I not ventured into that particular school of thought.
Instead of "affirmations, visualizations, nlp, congruence etc." I just have two words: KNOWING and BELIEF.
That's all it really boils down to, knowing who you are and what you want, what you're capable, what you have to offer and most importantly believing in it.
I see the past in the rest of these terminologies, not something I resonate with anymore.
From my experience of speed dating last time I've decided to do it again, this time however, I won't try to be stable and solid and maintain my composure, whatever happens happens.
This summer, rather than try to make up for the last, I'll look on the past as a learning experience, I'm gonna spend the next couple days digging deep effortlessly, when I 'watch' my ego and become the observer I don't judge it and I know in that instant why I can't force this shit (NG, meditation, growth etc.)...doing that when I feel it's best and keeping it up,is all I gots to do now.
