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 Post subject: Shedding the old ways.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 12, 2010 2:27 am 
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Since I've left the seduction community and unlearning what hasn't served me, I've taught myself to simplify all these terminologies that I would have otherwise probably never been made aware of had I not ventured into that particular school of thought.

Instead of "affirmations, visualizations, nlp, congruence etc." I just have two words: KNOWING and BELIEF.

That's all it really boils down to, knowing who you are and what you want, what you're capable, what you have to offer and most importantly believing in it.

I see the past in the rest of these terminologies, not something I resonate with anymore.

From my experience of speed dating last time I've decided to do it again, this time however, I won't try to be stable and solid and maintain my composure, whatever happens happens.

This summer, rather than try to make up for the last, I'll look on the past as a learning experience, I'm gonna spend the next couple days digging deep effortlessly, when I 'watch' my ego and become the observer I don't judge it and I know in that instant why I can't force this shit (NG, meditation, growth etc.)...doing that when I feel it's best and keeping it up,is all I gots to do now. :D

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 12, 2010 3:42 am 
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I've watched your posts on RELM even though I wasn't a member and you've definitely grown. Go get em man.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 10:17 pm 
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Midnight wrote:
I've watched your posts on RELM even though I wasn't a member and you've definitely grown. Go get em man.
I don't really know if I have, I do feel progressing but, every once in awhile I go back to porn, because I have no release for all this energy, except for that.

Realistically I don't know how long it's going to take me to overcome this, and I accept that, fuckit.

Today my friend saw his girlfriend and they started kissing right next to me and I felt uncomfortable, I've looked for the answers to my deep rooted issues for years but you know what, I'm tired of looking for the elusive life-altering epiphany, and trying to be happy, trying to be strong, I shouldn't have to try.

I haven't given up on myself nor will I ever, but I am giving up alot of things...

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 14, 2010 10:43 pm 
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That's a good sign. If there's anything i've learned it's that this is a very slow, very gradual process.

We're have years of conditioning that was being reinforced in many ways very often. It can be hard to fathom just how much that is and how long it's been like that. Some have less conditioning than others, some more, but the point is that the process is a LOT longer than one might think.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 7:17 pm 
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Midnight wrote:
That's a good sign. If there's anything i've learned it's that this is a very slow, very gradual process.

We're have years of conditioning that was being reinforced in many ways very often. It can be hard to fathom just how much that is and how long it's been like that. Some have less conditioning than others, some more, but the point is that the process is a LOT longer than one might think.
Why measure w/physical senses...


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 15, 2010 9:52 pm 
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I'm not sure I understand...

Personally I don't really measure progress or anything. I just go with the flow, and live moment to moment, unless I need to plan for something.


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