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| Author: | Endew [ Mon Feb 22, 2016 5:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Downside to Confidence and Indiffrence |
About a 2 years ago i had so much momentum in my life with my clout and career. On top of that i made a decision to work on my Confidence,self esteem and indifference. Like it was a job for about 6 months.(Kiddz korner,confirmations, 6 pillars of self-esteem and john kehoes mind power etc.) I felt real good like happy to start my day and ready for the challenges of life. And got a lot of confirmations from others. However i started to get scared. I felt more lonely then i ever had in my life. I felt distant from my parents and siblings. (They seemed a little jealous). Distant from the world kinda like a sociopath or pyschopath. I ran and went back into my bubble of low-self esteem and unproductive habits. Anybody ever feel this way or have any advice for me? |
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| Author: | Jared [ Mon Feb 22, 2016 5:39 pm ] | ||
| Post subject: | Re: Downside to Confidence and Indiffrence | ||
Only when you are unhappy do you >>>think>>> about happiness.
All thoughts about yourself consist of memories only
Don't try to be happy, people do this all week long
and nothing happens. Instead work at understanding yourself. That's what works |
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| Author: | Aragorn [ Mon Feb 22, 2016 8:05 pm ] | |
| Post subject: | Re: Downside to Confidence and Indiffrence | |
If I had to take a stab at it, not knowing anything about you but knowing a lot about my own journey: You wanted to be more confident because you felt threatened by others around you. You vs. them mentality and all that, and seeing the world through those lens. And in the early stages it worked, but if you keep working on being seperate from others in the sense of defining yourself by your relative worth, you end up alienated completely.
I felt distant from my parents and siblings. (They seemed a little jealous)
You can only get to know and work with the statements that start like the 1st one. The 2nd one is distraction, procrastination and mental masturbation instead of actual work.
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| Author: | The Kidd!! [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 5:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Downside to Confidence and Indiffrence |
You push thru it...when that happens that means you're doing it right.  This path isn't for everyone...but did those it's for, it will feel right.  Fear of the unknown is expected...so do you embrace the fear and push forward or return to the unremarkable familiarity that you came from...oh wait...you already answered that.  Iceberg Slim said that a pimp is the loneliest bastard on earth. You gotta pay the cost to be the boss. 
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| Author: | fufe [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 5:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Downside to Confidence and Indiffrence |
Look into the loneliness. And the fear. You have to be alone.. It is not any other way, in the end.. |
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| Author: | Jared [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 6:30 pm ] | |
| Post subject: | Re: Downside to Confidence and Indiffrence | |
Look into the loneliness. And the fear. You have to be alone.. It is not any other way, in the end..
Go deeper or be shallower.(?) (｀へ′)
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| Author: | Endew [ Sat Feb 27, 2016 5:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Downside to Confidence and Indiffrence |
Got it. I will mentailly prepare myself to push thru it and go deeper. |
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| Author: | peregrinus [ Mon Feb 29, 2016 10:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Downside to Confidence and Indiffrence |
The real question is: why do you feel that way? is there a good reason? |
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| Author: | Endew [ Mon Mar 07, 2016 9:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Downside to Confidence and Indiffrence |
I'm find with being alone. Codependecy might be why i feel that way. |
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