One of the most interesting things I learned on this forum was the idea that women mature quicker than men

I'm doing a college course at the moment and there are a few girls in it with me. Now these girls seem nice at first, they talk to each other like they're best of friends and care for one another.

Then one of them has their back turned and suddenly its all "She's a bitch" "I hate her" and "She's so annoying"

The immaturity can get a bit irritating. Its good to know about though, its gotten to the point with me that if they weren't good looking I probably wouldn't give them the time of day.

One thing I'd like to work on though is how my confidence can be shot if I'm around a pretty girl and I go in to PUA mode or worse AFC mode and can't get over how good looking they are, I'm pretty sure a bit more experience can cure that though.

I agree with Star though; once had a gal who was probably the hottest I had been with. Lovely gal too. Anyhow, she took a dump in my toilet and left a floater there. 'Twas the biggest dump I had ever seen, far bigger than I had ever done aswell. I wondered what man was guilty of this crime, but when I realised that I was the only man in the vicinity, it dawned on me. The culprit had a vagina. I was appalled by this revelation. She went from a 10/10 to 6/10 in that moment.

I agree with Star though; once had a gal who was probably the hottest I had been with. Lovely gal too. Anyhow, she took a dump in my toilet and left a floater there. 'Twas the biggest dump I had ever seen, far bigger than I had ever done aswell. I wondered what man was guilty of this crime, but when I realised that I was the only man in the vicinity, it dawned on me. The culprit had a vagina. I was appalled by this revelation. She went from a 10/10 to 6/10 in that moment.

Who the fuck said that on here? I want his name!!!

I'm doing a college course at the moment and there are a few girls in it with me. Now these girls seem nice at first, they talk to each other like they're best of friends and care for one another.

Then one of them has their back turned and suddenly its all "She's a bitch" "I hate her" and "She's so annoying"

The immaturity can get a bit irritating. Its good to know about though, its gotten to the point with me that if they weren't good looking I probably wouldn't give them the time of day.

One thing I'd like to work on though is how my confidence can be shot if I'm around a pretty girl and I go in to PUA mode or worse AFC mode and can't get over how good looking they are, I'm pretty sure a bit more experience can cure that though.

Depends what you mean by mature. They learn pyscological warfare and manipulation technique waaaaay earlier than most of us do, if we ever do that is(most never do). Little gals run rings around the boys, do better in the classroom whilst the lads are sitting there wondering who they're gonna jack off to that evening. Not to mention, it was always apparent to me how they used their sexuality before boys, plus their emotional life. Remember, boys are taught from day that they shouldn't cry or generally exhibit any emotion and it stunts the fuck out of us. It's encouraged in girls, they use it(even as grown Women they use emotion as a tool, either to extract sympathy or to frighten Men into submission because afterall we are taught to supress ours and we don't know how to handle emotion), and men fall for it. So really the word mature is probably the wrong one

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If you're still overwhelmed by a 'hot' girl then just allow yourself to be attracted to her. You have permission. So fukin what? She looks good. Neither of you should apologise. The aim is not to kill your desire like a Monk because that's denying yourself. Just acknowledge how attractive you think they are without doing anything about it. With time the overwhelming feeling will fade and they become rather boring on a surface level.

Otherwise you've still got a belief that her aesthetic appeal has a higher value than anything you can offer. See beyond that - Is she saying anything interesting? Is there life behind those dead eyes? Is she made up? If so, imagine what she looks like without - makeup, hair done up, push up this and that, unshaven, probably unwaxed moustache - a fuckin mess no doubt. I look better than most Women when they haven't got any of that stuff going on - difference is that I don't have to wear heels and makeup to get attention.

Don't forget though that she probably experiences it every fuckin day; some guy panics because she looks good and she starts getting the symp treatment. We all know girls like that; they either lap it up like hoes or they are embarrassed by it. Both types respond to you differently when you see through the way they look. They're disarmed 'cos they know they have to bring something else to the party. Most of the time they fail at doing even that.

I agree with Star though; once had a gal who was probably the hottest I had been with. Lovely gal too. Anyhow, she took a dump in my toilet and left a floater there. 'Twas the biggest dump I had ever seen, far bigger than I had ever done aswell. I wondered what man was guilty of this crime, but when I realised that I was the only man in the vicinity, it dawned on me. The culprit had a vagina. I was appalled by this revelation. She went from a 10/10 to 6/10 in that moment.

Fucked up ain't it?

It happened to me with the hottest one I've been with too, one day I remember I was at her place and when we were talking she turned her head for a minute and her ear was fucking full of wax, it was disgusting and I became one indifferent motherfucker after that lol

You gotta love nature, not letting you have a girl you really want buy forcing you to exhibit unattractive behaviors if you really want her to make sure monogamy doesn't happen, but when you don't want to be with just her you naturally exhibit attractive behaviors because of it and you get it all. Gotta follow nature's laws mofo's and you'll be showered with gifts.

Damn Leo, I feel you. She did turn into a 6/10. You remember this sexy picture she sent you when she left? I remember it like it happened yesterday.

Ah I see so its about self acceptance and non resistance!

Would you still be nice or talk to her if fucking her was impossible?

Yeah, what you resist persists. Allow yourself to be attracted, overwhelmed even if that's how you feel. If you're trying to block that, then firstly it's because you want to appear a certain way to her in order to have a shot at fucking her; IOW, you're doing it for her not for you. Allowing the way you feel to be there means you don't give a fuck how she is perceiving you. Secondly, she'll see through it anyway so why cover up - you're not trying to fuck her and you're not attached to an outcome.

More often than not you have to take a few hits for the team(the team being you and your ego) in the short term to benefit from the long term. Eventually your mindset becomes congruent with your actions and the overwhelmed sensation disappears. Experience goes some way but only quality experience. A PUA would go into the field and approach every beautiful Women he sees in order to become desensitised. I can see the benefit of that but it's unnecessary. The real core of the issue is that your 'confidence is shot' when in the presence of beautiful women. To me this translates as you holding a belief that her looks are of higher value than anything you have to offer. So you're focusing on outer things too much.

Would you still be nice or talk to her if fucking her was impossible?