Someone once said something along the lines that "the more she struggles the deeper she'll sink; like quick sand".

Do you look to always establish a contract before sex, or are there exceptions?

Give some examples of where you think there would be exceptions?

In what cases do you think it would count as an exception?

Do you reel in fishing line before you have a fish on the hook?

The Kidd said it in this thread:
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?p=914#p914

In cases of a one night stand, the unspoken contract is usually pretty obvious.

For example, what if a girl and I where to hit it off strongly at a party. Sexual chemistry high and apparent from both our bodies and vibe. It is getting apparent that both of us want to taste the other that same night. Wouldn't a contract diminish some of that chemistry and vibe, since's it's logistics? I view it as trying to explain the feeling of being happy in the moment, as you begin to explain the feeling you get stuck into trying to think of how it feels and lose the feeling.

I always found they try to make it more long term pretty quick.

In cases of a one night stand, the unspoken contract is usually pretty obvious.

Yeah, that sounds right. Rolan, you have a good point too. When this situation comes up I'll feel it out and go from there.

Kidd, having said what you said how would a contract come into play if the one-night stand ended up being amazing sex. The girl could really get down and push the pleasure buttons. So good that I would like to do it again with her. Would it be protocol to establish my contract with her?

edit: grammar

no! you will be leading with the thought that the sex was great, thus putting "it" or her above you. so a contract in that scenario would be a tad bit "trickish".

if she however really dug the sex, THEN, it would be good to put YOUR terms and conditions into how you two will continue to play.

if she dug it, you will know. if you dug it, don't act like it was the best you ever had and start "Drake'n" it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGt4DOl411o

Kidd, having said what you said how would a contract come into play if the one-night stand ended up being amazing sex. The girl could really get down and push the pleasure buttons. So good that I would like to do it again with her. Would it be protocol to establish my contract with her?

HAVING THE WRONG MINDSET AFFECTS YOUR SEXUAL PERFORMANCE. No, really!

See, when I let myself be all sappy, I came faster than minute rice (well, a little longer than that, but nowhere near normal). I enjoyed it ALOT! Yet, when I went back to logical 'ol me, I almost COULDN'T cum...same girl, same plumbing. It was a CHORE to cum. So check THIS out, right?...

It could then be postulated that...if you are climaxing too easily with a woman, YOU ARE IN THE WRONG MINDSTATE...and vice versa!

Therefore!...the stronger your position in the relationship, the harder it is for you to climax! This is potentially HUGE! This means that men don't need cockrings and the like to combat premature ejaculation...they just have to man up to make the woman desire them more than they desire the woman!

I'm going to stick to what I'm doing and deal with the girls that choose me, until this phase runs its toll.

Why until this phase runs it's toll?

If they decide to play silly games I'm in no mood to BALL STEAL and dunk on their face, at least at the moment! That is what I meant by, "until this phase runs its toll". Maybe after the anger resides and I accept things for how they are I could have fun ball stealing and dunking on their face's. Maybe it will become a hobby.