This is a follow up to this thread:
For anyone that's ever got an inkling in their head that red flags can be ignored, that character flaws are 'part of the package', because you guys are so cool and close and connected, be warned: bitches be crazy, as if you didn't already know.
So I dumped this bitch over a week ago, prematurely as she would still be living with me for another month, I lost my cool in an argument and told her we were done, I made her sleep on my fold out bed, she wanted me to think it over til the morning so I conceded so I could get to sleep, we talked about it the next day and blah blah she was crying and she realised I was finally done.
Next day she asked if we could hang out and watch a film, so I said sure, even though in the back of my mind I thought it was kinda fucked up to be hanging out after we broke up but whatever, might as well make the best of things right? So we went to see a film, had a good time, went back home and got drunk and played videogames, naturally we started flirting and we fucked. The next morning we had some sort of amazing esoteric conversation about how we're both on the same page and why our relationship was over, the flaws on both her end and mine and we were both cool, she even said she never had such a deep connection with someone, such an understanding blah blah.
So over the course of the next week she slept in the separate bed and we didn't fuck, until a couple days ago we get drunk and fuck again, then she asks me to say something, to "say it" so I'm like alright fuck it, she wants to hear some shit she already knows so and I tell her "I'm not in love with you", to her this was a shock, I know right? you get dumped and still believe the guy's in love with you, SHOCKING, then there's me trying to get logic into her brain and how nuts she is for telling me I wasn't clear (EVEN MORE SHOCKING).
So the next couple days (including today) she was arguing about how even though I dumped her I did not make it clear that I was not in love with her anymore, call me crazy but when you dump someone you no longer have feelings for them, or is that just me?. Anyways she went home for a day and I had some space, shit was so draining that I didn't do shit all day, I took some stuff down from my wall that she had given me and out something else in place, so naturally when she came back she enquired about the wall and got pissed off, her idiocy pissed me off and we had another argument. I proceed to give her the score, something to the effect of "we are not friends anymore, when you go back home you will never hear from me again, you're taking your shit tomorrow and leaving".
I had some covers on my bed which she ended up taking for her bed, I grabbed them off her and we had a tug of war with it, she then decides to call her mom, her mom's a real piece of work, she tried to convince me that my anger is a precursor to violence and if I get violent with her daughter she will call the police and she threatened to have me lose my job….really, lose my fucking job over a tug of war over a bed cover. She also tried to blackmail me into this dumb cunt staying with me for the rest of our agreement cuz she had no other way of travelling to her job, but is that my fucking problem really I want this crazy bitch out of my house ASAP and her behaviour is not to be tolerated.
I did not want either of these crazy bitches to call the cops over some imagined threat (I'm not a violent dude) so I called my fams for advice, I took a walk and we proceeded to call the cops and tell them about this crazy bitch's behaviour and if there's anything that can be done to prevent unnecessary bullshit, the cops came down and talked to us, I went in my place and we opened the door, my EX (I love saying that) panics and thought the cops were the ones her mom threatened to call.
Little did this dumb bitch know that these cops were sent here to mediate and to make sure everything's cool when her parents come to help her move her shit out, if I had not called for help who knows what this crazy bitch would have done and made up to get me in trouble for nothing, and the parents had the nerve to act like everything was cool or would be at some point down the line, and that I was overreacting…REALLY BITCH? I was overreacting cuz you threatened to call the cops over a tug of war over a cover and you were going to paint a picture of me as an abusive boyfriend and make me get a criminal record?? even the cops thought this was a waste of time and this bitch was dumb, one of them also told me there's no reason for the police to be here but this happens a lot (bitches be crazy EVERYWHERE). Thankfully this dumb cunt of an ex girlfriend told the cops I have never been violent with her and would never do such a thing and I made sure she took everything back and I mean EVERYTHING, all the birthday presents she gave me, all her shit, wiped from my place.
It is now an ungodly hour in the morning and I gotta get to work tomorrow but I feel so fucking free and so fucking glad to be rid of this bitch, I deleted her from fb and all that, I'm paying her back some of that money since she didn't stay the whole time, after I send her that confirmation text I'm deleting her number. This bitch was under the impression that we will still be friends someday, her crazy parents even told me "hope to see you soon", the dumb bitch held out her hand for a handshake and I did not give it to her, I don't wanna touch this bitch, don't even want to look at her and as I saw them leave through the door a weight was lifted off my shoulders.
I feel so good right now, this bitch was all up in my space, sucking my energy, I have my flaws as a person but this bitch is nuts, her logic was so twisted and retarded that I was often at a loss for words to correct her with a dignified response. I will write more about the nature of our relationship later but I had to get this off my chest, hope it was clear and not too much all over the place, I'm done with relationships for a long time though, this bitch was too young and crazy ONLY CHILD SYNDROME and coddled by her crazy bitch mother, jesus christ I am a free man.
I am free and it feels great and I've even cheated death before, haven't felt a similar feeling in a long time and I'm genuinely happy, that finally, once and for all I am rid of this bitch for good. Now is the time to note the mistakes I made, actually I'll let y'all handle that, I know where I fucked up but I wanna see if some of the newer guys can suss it out, plus I got work in the morning and this bitch has kept me up at an ungodly hour of the morning for the last time, the relationship was not a waste of time, I learned quite a few things and it was good for a time but man, this crazy fuckin hoe, too much crazy to deal with.
Will be back soon for more rants and coherence.
Oh yeah before I forget The Kidd!! warned me about this shit from the beginning and he knows the crazy shit I've had to deal with from the get-go, thanks again for all your advice and wisdom dude.