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In a class of mine I noticed a female jocking a while back.
I also noticed she was looking to sit next to me at one point last week, but didn't happen.
Usually I take up both seats as the tables outnumber the students. (It's a night class and not over-crowded)

Today, I wanted to experiment, so I made myself more available to sit next to and left one seat available.

I was pondering if she would sit to the seat directly next to me.
That would be fairly direct for a girl in college, especially since we haven't even talked yet.

She came in...looked around and sat at the table in front of me.
Knowing what I know from here freaks me out sometimes...being able to observe and analyze pretty well. (Developing a 6th-sense).

Didn't talk one bit during class.

Class finishes and I chat with my fellow classmates behind me about another class.
She waits for an opening and opens me.

"Who's your teacher?"

Silly question, because I knew we both had the same teacher in the SAME CLASS, and I know she knows we do to.

I answered her question, but asked her: Aren't we in the same class?

"Yeah."



This told me more about her and her feelings about me: She's not entirely confident, but wanted to open me and did when a easy opening came.

She was a bit nervous, nothing huge or crazy, just not able to hold eye contact long and jumping around in conversation.
She's a little dorky and I like that.

No more than 20 seconds into our conversation, she says:

My boyfriend took this class, so he's helping me.

I reciprocate and say she's got it made, she'll ace the class with the help of her boyfriend.

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Afterward I was analyzing why she mentioned her boyfriend so quickly.

1) To put the onus on me if anything further happens (aka not make her feel guilty/responsible)

2) Actually, there is no number 2.

So that's my breakdown.
Any thoughts gentleman?

Btw it's the 7th week of school now, and the most I've done before today with her was hold eye contact once for longer than usual. Patience created some stories in her head...I think.





The ratio of guys to girls in this class is like 9:1.

In my experience, I've felt it was usually the opposite.

Poor girl, must be like walking into a pen of vipers. Obviously you were the safest option. Or...maybe it was just a seat to sit on?

She mentioned her BF because she wanted to take herself off the meat rack, regardless of whether she wants to get down with you or not.

Point is - watch what they do, not what they say.

Yup also look about a bitch smelling the ass of a dog.
I don't remember if it was you or other user; about the girls smelling the asses of the dogs just for the sake of it.

I think you have to get more piled manila papers to get a solid case.

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In my experience, whenever a chick that was jocking me made quick mention of her boyfriend, 9 times out of 10 it was proven to be that she already knew she was vulnerable with me and KNEW it. So they figure that by doing that, you'll hopefully respect it enough not to make a move, because if you did she knows she'd be in trouble.

Bonus protip: Also, it makes it easier for you to smash and dash because you can lay down part of the contract with, '...and I know you already have a man and I'm not trying to take his place...so we BOTH know what this IS.'

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In my experience, karma was a total bitch.

Share with the class man

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Seconded

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Nope. Have fun though, folks who are still in class.

Lemme guess, you fucked someone's girl, her man fucked you up.

The end.

That's not Karma...that's direct retaliation.

Karma would be more like if you fuck someone's girl...and then one day someone fucks YOUR girl. But realistically, even that would be less Karma and more MIRROR.

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I suppose if Karma really is like for like, or mirror as you put it.

Though through all the times i've fucked someone's else gf I've never had someone fuck my gf....yet. Although, if there is such thing as karmic debt, then I've a fair whack to pay out

Can't say I'm that bothered. If no-one fucked eachother's gf's then nobodies getting laid! Hell, most of the girls I come across have boyfriends

The first girl I ever slept with had a boyfriend. Not only that, they were supposedly deeply in love and planning to get married.

It just goes to show that it scarcely matters if she has a boyfriend or not. It may alter some of the smaller aspects of your relationship with her, but it really is of little consequence.

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-Thoreau's Walden

The labels, oh the labels. Getting past the labels.
(and boxes)

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All that matters in the end is:

How badly she wants to fuck you versus how little it will compromise her current situation.

In other words, they are much more like men (MIRROR) than they would ever admit to.

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The first girl I fucked who had a boyfriend was when I was 19. She was 28, in a l/t relationship, and supposedley in love with him;

'Oh but I do love him though'.

Ok. I can see how he was a quintessential symp, now that I can recognise behaviour. Needy, wimpy, whiny, dependent, came too quick according to her. I don't remember ever feeling sorry for the guy, or even wondering why she was with him. It is disturbing to think of how and why she remained with him, even if you took me out of the equation. She was a very beautiful, funny and intelligent gal, and still had a good 4 years till expiry date started to kick in. That she was wasting her youth with such a guy is sad

To be fair, physical/sexual attraction is independent of 'love'...in other words, you can fuck someone else and still 'love' your partner, as twisted and deviant as that may sound...though in most cases the 'partner' is usually a 'better option' in almost every other aspect minus raw sexual attraction/attention.

Whether it's right or wrong depends on prior mutual agreements, individual moral compasses and which side of the transaction you are on I suppose...

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In my example, I was offering youth, sex and something a little dangerous in comparison(she got off on the idea of me being her toyboy, and getting caught out). Obviously I was in not a serious option for her.

What he offered, I just don't know;

Financial - She worked for Warner Music, he was a broke musician.
Sex - Captain Cum Quick.
Attention - Like a stalker.
Social Status - Nope.
Aesthetic qualities - Nope.

Why would she have stayed with him? All I can think of is severe insecurity, although she never exhibited that in any way. Very socially confident, and her vibe seemed content. If he had clout I could understand it.

Saw an extreme version of that once. She was the hottest girl I'd ever seen. He was a hobo, not even kidding.

She did it cause she could. Veritably flaunted him around town.

Bingo

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