Keep livin...you'll see.

My viewpoint on this seems to be 180 degrees off from some of you guys. I usually take women recommending me to other women as pretty insulting. I'd be all 'shit, what am I doing wrong??'

Seems like you're still stuck in the mindset that there is something you can do/say/be that will make ANY girl like you.

Work on yourself for yourself

It's probably even more insulting if they've known you for a while, let alone your whole life.

My point was for being upset in the other direction. Try running your sister's sex life and see the response you get

I don't know. Again, personally, i would see it as just another facet of abundance in my life. Not only am I attracting other women, other women I know are attracting other women FOR ME. If my perceived value in their eyes(whoever they might be) is high enough that they think I would make a friend of theirs happy(while they themselves are self-admitted as unavailable/married/family), this seems like a win-win.

I honestly don't see the problem with this. We obviously have different perspectives(and expectations) on life.

Maybe drop your ego?

Anyway I consider you suitably warned

Thanks for the warning? I guess.

I never thought I would be warned because I am about to have 4 women wanting to date me at the same time. The previous three all know about each other, so there is no lying going on. If it progresses, I will tell the 4th about the others as well. If she isn't ok with it, she has the choice to leave, and thats fine. So far, we all appreciate each others company. If one wants to become exclusive, that will entail a conversation, and a decision on my part.

I am building my life the way I want it to be, and you should build yours the way you want it to be. Your 'warning' seems to be coming from the perspective of how you want/think your life works. I appreciate it, but that is not how I choose to make my life work.

#firstworldproblems

Thanks for the warning? I guess.

]not worth the time

Oh, I don't know. Part of this process for me is writing these experiences down. Having a counterpoint(however wrong I think it is for me), helps me to solidify my thoughts when I have to show my views. I am writing more for me, than trying to convince anyone else to follow me.

For now, it is just a message board. But I see it as being good practice for refining my methods, and ability to think on my feet when there is more on the line. Things such as my integrity being on the line. If I can hold my line here, and be respectful about it, I can do it 'out there' too. The more I practice, the more 'natural' this will become.

I appreciate the guidance Kidd, but I feel this back and forth is just as important to my new experiences as the experiences themselves. It's still all a new world to me, and this seems to be a good way to process and integrate it(for me at least).

Hmmmm...good point.

Just know as far as I'm concerned...you're doing it right.

Part of this process for me is writing these experiences down. Having a counterpoint(however wrong I think it is for me), helps me to solidify my thoughts when I have to show my views. I am writing more for me, than trying to convince anyone else to follow me.

For now, it is just a message board. But I see it as being good practice for refining my methods, and ability to think on my feet when there is more on the line. Things such as my integrity being on the line. If I can hold my line here, and be respectful about it, I can do it 'out there' too. The more I practice, the more 'natural' this will become.

I appreciate the guidance Kidd, but I feel this back and forth is just as important to my new experiences as the experiences themselves. It's still all a new world to me, and this seems to be a good way to process and integrate it(for me at least).

other women I know are attracting other women FOR ME. If my perceived value in their eyes(whoever they might be) is high enough that they think I would make a friend of theirs happy(while they themselves are self-admitted as unavailable/married/family), this seems like a win-win.

Some of you definitely play it close to the chest, but if what I'm reading is true, what I thought was a minor point of argument has revealed a lot about where you guys are at.

In my rearview mirror, happily eating steak

Anyway, learning comes from all directions. So, I'm really looking forward to future developments on here

Oh, I don't know. Part of this process for me is writing these experiences down. Having a counterpoint(however wrong I think it is for me), helps me to solidify my thoughts when I have to show my views. I am writing more for me, than trying to convince anyone else to follow me.

For now, it is just a message board. But I see it as being good practice for refining my methods, and ability to think on my feet when there is more on the line. Things such as my integrity being on the line. If I can hold my line here, and be respectful about it, I can do it 'out there' too. The more I practice, the more 'natural' this will become.

I appreciate the guidance Kidd, but I feel this back and forth is just as important to my new experiences as the experiences themselves. It's still all a new world to me, and this seems to be a good way to process and integrate it(for me at least).

At least we're not eating overcooked staunch.