I own a business, and on my business' website there's a pic/profile of me on the About page. This lady had recognized me from my website, and was so excited to see me. She was dragging her squeeze behind her, and she gave him her phone and made him take a pic of her and I so that she could send it to some friend of hers who doesn't even live within 2 hours of me. She just kept saying, "oh, you would be so perfect for her!" I just laughed, and the girl I was with (who had invited me to the festival and was buying me drinks) just stood there with her mouth agape.
My viewpoint on this seems to be 180 degrees off from some of you guys. I usually take women recommending me to other women as pretty insulting. I'd be all 'shit, what am I doing wrong??'
It took me a lot of improvement, but I once finally managed to get one woman to go from recommending me to her girlfriends to saying 'hey give me a call sometime' with a curious look on her face. I didn't
. Her loss.
If women arent fucking you, they are probably fucking you over. You have to ask yourself why they think they can do the latter, even when they've just met you. What vibe are you giving off.
I call this 'Resource distribution'. A malleable commodity to be passed around, a resource to be (re)distributed amongst the sisterhood.
As an aside, I know plenty of men who have slept with or dated many members of a close-knit group of women. The women never showed any sort of jealousy or ownership, instead choosing to compare notes.
Anytime a women has said something along the lines of 'Oh, you'd be great for my friend/sister/daughter, you should meet up', I ask to see a photograph. If they decline, I won't take it further. If they show me one and I like/dislike then I will meet/not meet. Most women will say to me,'Oh she's reaaallly pretty, you'll see', but unless they show me photographic evidence then I decline outright.
Yet I never believe it's anything special, or even flattering that they ask but instead see it as the cheap transaction that it is. If we can conclude that Women aren't interested in who you are but rather what you have, then it's just another trade route for them. Each to their own. Either way, no reason to be staunch about it.