I dont know about the layers but i will tell you from observation that when i see a chick that i find physically attracivet to me i get horny.
And? I never said that reaction wouldn't happen. What I said was that the reaction isn't 100% physical. The horniness is some amount of physical desire and some amount of additional meaning layered on top of it.
My horniness doesnt respond to her personality or friendly aura it doesnt matter if i dont feel horny around them.
I never said anything about her personality. The layers I'm talking about are YOUR layers that YOU create in YOUR OWN MIND. They have nothing to do with what she is actually like. Look at what you wrote earlier:
Shit is depressing even girls in the 4-5 range are not replying to my messages
Fact - you sent a message off into space and nothing came back. Everything else is your interpretation, your meaning. The whole part about her being a 4-5 is your interpretation. The whole part about it being depressing that nothing came back is the meaning you are assigning to it in your own head. It has nothing to do with the actual girl (if there is actually a real girl on the other end that is receiving your message).
Do.you think.i.will benefit.from.a.90. Day no.masturbation no.porn.fast?One.thing i.do.notice.is.that i.am.attracted.physicly to.bitchy sexy white girls.with those ditsy volleyball.voices almost like.a fetish even.if.they are.bitchy im.sexually.attacted to.them..Do you.think a.porn.masturbation.fast will.help.unassociate these neural.connections?or.are they purely.biogical.and.not.learned?
They are 100% learned. Nobody is born with a built in attraction to bitchy white girls.
As for the fast - do you think it would help you?
I'm not going to tell you yes or no. You have to take a hard look at yourself and decide for yourself.
I can tell you that many other guys have done it and found it very worthwhile. See AlexJ's and TheDude's recent posts on it.
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I'm also going to emphasize a couple of Flow's points to make sure you don't miss them because they are very important:
Treat it with the respect it deserves. Would you expect to cure heroin addiction by "stop giving a shit" or reading forums? This type of thinking is like heroin except it is FREE and ALWAYS available.
It will eat away at you until you face what you actually want to get from women, to prove to yourself, etc. on a deep level that you have projected on to them. There is no escaping it - period. Life is very persistent in this way. It will keep shaking you until you wake up or die.
I recommend confronting it directly and not pretend you are not focused on them anymore (suppression)