Natural Freedom

I messages this chick online earlier today saying hey sexy and after a few exchange of msgs..i drop her my number and tell her to text me sometime...SHE texts me a few hours later
Her:hey David.its Amanda
Me:hey
Her:from Cupid..sorry
Me:Lol..I know who you are
Her:hahaha just sayin lol

I left it at that.The old me would try to keep the conversation going/asking interview questions.Im really trying to limit the amount of space im taking.If she's not gonna make the effort to show interest or ask me questions then im not gonna make the effort to keep the convo going.Is this the right attitude?

It's a start...baby steps.

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You could do worse...

Might be helpful to ask yourself what your intention is with messaging her in the first place. What do you want out of this, and why do you want it?

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"The society gives you a map; I give you only freedom. The society gives you character, I give you only consciousness. The society teaches you to live a conformist life ... I give you an invitation to go on an adventure." - Osho

I thought she was sexy(no makeup) and was interested to see where things may lead.Wouldn't mind having Fwb if things go well and she invests.Is this a bad intention?

Read those slowly, separately, at least a few times.

Then think about what you would say to me if I had posted them.

NOTE: NO-ONE ELSE, only caliboy85

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

If you had posted it I would say that you were trying to get into her pants.

[INANE BUZZER SOUND] Incorrect, way too easy.

Attempt #2 coming up...

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Wait a sec are you saying I was too worried whether or not things went the way I wanted them to go?(dream scenario of have Fwb with a hot chick)

He made three quotes for you to read.

None of them had anything to do with you "doing" anything.

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[INANE BUZZER SOUND] Incorrect, way too easy.

Attempt #4 coming up...

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

You mean good job..now just let it go and see where it goes?

Watch it, 'Grinus...he can do this all day!

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

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I'm confused

I can see that.

A slight hint, you have not guessed correctly yet.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Focused too much on her?

Idk man I'm trying too see what you want men to see.. its not from a lack of effort

Fix'd

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

I'm gonna answer this honestly Grinus.If you wrote that post I would say you are a normal guy with desires.I don't see anything wrong with it from my perspective.Theres nothing wrong with desiring friends with benefits or seeing where things go as long as you are aware of these desires and not attached to them.That's all i would say to you.

Caliboy - You may think or feel like Kidd and Grinus are holding out on the answer just to mess with you a bit. They're not.

You have a blindspot, a part of yourself you choose not to look at/acknowledge.

You don't get rid of a blindspot by getting someone else to look there and tell you what they see.

You get rid of a blindspot by turning your head and looking.

This is part of what we call doing pushups. Grinus is trying to get you to look at your blindspot.

Once you look at your blindspot, you can question why you were unwilling to look there, and you can question why what you found when you looked is there. Seeing everything as it is, learning the truth of the yourself and the world is not always pleasant or easy, but its definitely worthwhile.

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"The society gives you a map; I give you only freedom. The society gives you character, I give you only consciousness. The society teaches you to live a conformist life ... I give you an invitation to go on an adventure." - Osho

After painfully struggling through this answer I have come up with something.

Forget the idea of you posting it for a minute and just imagine I was a 3rd person looking in.

If I was on the outside looking in I would tell myself what the fuck are you doing caring about where this interaction goes!!!!...who gives a fine fuck whether or not she invests in the interaction or not you fucking idiot!!Stop basing your sucess on wheter or not a woman responds to you because no single woman is responsible for your happiness.

oh my

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On another note,
Meraki
Flow

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.