So last week I got a MSG from this chick on an online dating site.She initiates telling me I'm cute and after a few back and forth msgs I give her my number and the option of texted me if she wants.Immediately she asks me my dick size..lol and I tell her.She sends me some nude photos and we start sexually texting.Over the last few days(until yesterday) she iniates texts asking me how I'm doing.(it actually got annoying at one point).Anyways fast forward to a couple of days ago
We have some conversation about how black dudes like thick white chicks.
Her:Are you one of them
Me: Yes ma'am
Her: SO does that mean you will make me your girl
Me:To be honest with you I'm not looking for a relationship right now but we can still be cool(taken from Kidd)
Her:Oh well at least I tried
Me: Just keeping it real
Her: I didn't want to scare you.
Her: I know it's early probably shouldn't have asked
She texts me the next day
Her:Good afternoon
Me:Hey
Her:How are you today
Me:doing fine sexy how about you?
Her: that's good and I'm doin just fine
Me: You working today
Her: No I'm off
Me:When I get my license your taking me out
Her: Oh really
Me: yes
Her:ok
20 mins later
Her: what up sexy
Me: headed to the gym.you?
Her:Oh so you do work out do you
Not shit.Just chillin
Me:watching porn?(she likes watching black on white)
Her:no my iPod is dead
Me:tell her to send me photos
Her:so how's the workout going
Me: Im not there yet
Me: do you ever go out with friends
Her:No
Me: How come?
Her: I have no car and I hangout with 1 friend.
Me: So have you ever gone out to the club or bars?
Her: No
Me:Oh ok
Her: Yeah
We haven't texted each other the last couple days.Shes probably shocked from having to deal with the fact that she can't have a relationship under her terms.And besides who in the right mind would ask to be your gf over text msg when they havent met you yet.She added me on facebook and saw her photos so this isnt a fake person.Obviously,this isn't the kind of woman I would want to be in a long term relationship but I wouldn't mind a friends with benefits type of deal if shes good looking enough in real life So far have I handled this well
Going off on a limb.
No disrespect to the other comments in the thread but telling her to come over and check out your dick after she asks how big it is is STUPID.
That's a bait trap to see you're like every other guy on the internet that talks about his dick to a female. Seriously, you should always defuse overt sexual come-ons with internet females.
If the overt bait is something like "can I invade your space" and then she hops on top of you then it's cool. If there is no physical counterpart and you do not have power to decide then it is not in your best interest to pursue that avenue with a woman. This holds true even if you can get the pussy by taking the bait.
If a nigga ain't tryin' to murk you then a bitch tryin' to burn you. Think about how many other guys she's asked that question to because you definitely aren't the first homeboy. She could have a disease.
Me:When I get my license your taking me out
Her: Oh really
Me: yes
Her:ok
Seriously, You didn't Mash on her at this point?
This is the point where you lay down all that contract shit that's floating around in your skull.
IN NO UNCERTAIN TERMS SHE SAID THAT SHE WOULD OBEY YOU.
IT'S YOUR JOB TO MAKE OR BREAK HER AT THIS POINT. SHE EITHER DOWN OR NOT DOWN.
You gave up the power like you were about to be assassinated.
This shit isn't over contrary to the other comments in the thread.
You're on life support with this woman.
Don't initiate any contact with her. When she contacts you and asks "What are you doing?" answer "Tired of texting you because you're bullshitting."
Stack and present evidence and save this before it's a total train wreck.