Natural Freedom

So ya´ll might remember this topic: viewtopic.php?f=2&t=2748

Anyways, we hang out at times and we are getting along.
I keep my jealousy in check but it still shines through at times but at least I am aware of it.
She blew of the mentioned dude because he was a "pussy" (her words) and because he fell "in love with her".
Unsurprisingly she had another dude lined up already to take his place.

So I was texting with another ex of mine about me and her, she told me the following:
On my question what I should do about it she said: I know that Kidd keeps saying that one shall not listen to women but this hit the nail right on the head.
This seemed like a damn honest assesment from her. Just felt like sharing this with you guys.

P.S: I´m seeing this as an experiment now, I am aware of my shortcomings and keep noticing when I fuck up.
Which means I will be able to learn how to counteract properly over time.
At least that is what I am trying to do

Like Kidd said: There´s always a next time.

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.

Like Grinus says: Let it go

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Just a moment ago I managed to let go of my anger. First time in my life.

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.

As a general rule you shouldn't go to women for advice on women...there are exceptions and x-factors out there (I wouldn't discount anything Villar might have to say, for example)...but to make it simple for those who are new to this mindset, I just put it out there like a blanket statement to help keep them focused.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

So profound, yet so simple.
Great. Now let that go too.
More and more I'm beginning to solidify that there will always be EXCEPTIONS to the RULE. There are no rules, only guidelines to follow?

Merrick my curiosity stirs, what're your plans with this broad of yours? And, there is always a plan! Sometimes we just aren't aware of it, because it may look too selfish or "bad". However, being aware of your plans and accepting them is what I believe to be apart of taking the red pill.

It's pretty much exclusively 'bout dealing with myself ATM
The broad ain't going anywhere, no need to rush things.

She's an external product of my internal conflict. Her behavior towards me, manipulation [attempts] in any shape or form, are accessory symptoms of a disease within me.
This is simply a female acting according to her nature.
Therefore not planning on anything for now. Not in regards to her, at least...
I'll deal with her when the time comes.

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.

Update: Just friendzoned her.
I was tired of being stuck in a limbo, so I labeled it.

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.

THIS DOES NOT MEAN SHIT. YOU WERE NOT IN LIMBO. SHE VIEWED YOU AS A FRIEND. YOUR OTHER FEMALE FRIEND SAID THE SAME DAMN THING. THAT EX OF YOURS SHOULDN'T BE AN EX BECAUSE SHE HAS A RATIONAL HEAD ON HER SHOULDERS. DAMN, ALL YOU DID WAS TELL THAT GIRL YOU'RE INTERESTED IN THAT I STILL GIVE A SHIT, FROM HER PERSPECTIVE. FRIENDZONING A FEMALE THAT ACTS UP, THAT IS INTERESTED IN YOU, TAKES YOU OUT OF LIMBO AND HELPS YOU. SHE AIN'T ACTING ANYTHING. YOU FRIENDZONED A LITTLE GIRL THAT DOESN'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU AND MADE YOUR SITUATION WORSE. I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED IF THE GIRL IN QUESTION STOPS HITTING YOU UP IF SHE EVER WAS AND/OR STOPS ANSWERING YOUR TEXTS AND CALLS. WHY? IT JUST WOULDN'T MAKE SENSE TO TALK TO YOU AFTER YOUR ACTIONS. '86 THAT GIRL. FIND A WOMAN. THEN TALK ABOUT HOW YOUR EXPERIENCES WITH WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT THAN GIRLS. YOU'LL KNOW A WOMAN WHEN YOU FIND ONE.

Note: this is just my humble opinion from this specific thread I have read. I have not read the other thread and don't plan too. It sounds like a damn waste of time.

Also, since you decided to randomly hit me up on Facebook. Then show some courtesy and respect for yourself and get rid of that shirtless profile picture. I don't use Facebook often, but my timeline is bad enough and people check my friends. I can't consider adding you until you change that shit and call me so you can get laced up on the basics.

I already don't socialize with most of the lames on my Facebook. I don't want to add another lame. I want to add someone that's real and that's about getting this paper.

Thanks rkd...I didn't have the heart to do it.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

I LOVE when the wise crack down through the bs and lay it straight!

I can take it

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.

Didn't say you couldn't take it...just said I wasn't gonna do it.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

I didn't worsen my situation in the slightest bit.
What I wanted to express was not what you read.
Rdk is spot on bout some things, totally missed the mark on others though.
You're not as smart as you think you are.
Humble opinion my ass
You're judgemental, arrogant & entitled.
Go get that paper, keep it real

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.

...and there it is.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

Rdk, you just saved me a whole lot of trouble.
Thanks- This shit hit a nerve.

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.

Like.

Indeed it did

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

He did it to me once too haha, I did the same thing...then realized after rdk was right

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Yeah, oh well shit happens.
I'm snowboarding in Austria at the moment, helps clearing my mind

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.

God isn't it funny how one can miss of all his own slip-ups, yet be so keen on others' mishaps.

Why can't we observe ourselves??!!?? GOD DAMN EGO!