Natural Freedom

Hey guys i have noticed that when i go out alone i am much more comfortable in my skin than when i go out with people.For some reason when i am out on my own i care less about social rules and what other people think whereas when i go out with friends i feel like they drag me in their weak behaviors like oh my god check out this girl.I even notice more women checking me out when i go out solo.I don't know i sometimes feel like i was born to not be around people.Should i continue doing this?

I prefer to go out alone...so take that as you wish.

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I prefer it too for plenty of reasons.

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

some surprise, or not.

Same response.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

The individual has always had to struggle to prevent being overwhelmed by the group. - Neitzche

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

I'm really getting into going out by myself these days.

Pros:
- Don't have to worry about 'rounding the guys up', or getting everyone to agree to go to the same place, or last minute cancellations, or any of the other bullshit that goes with groupthink.
- For similar reasons, I started going out to see films by myself a little while back. Got tired of 'negotiating' which film to see, having to do it on a night that is convenient for the other person, cancellations at the last minute, etc. The people in my life are fairly accommodating - they wouldn't be in my life if they weren't - but the above can still come into play for legitimite reasons, and it's a pain in the ass regardless. Plus, I just got fed up of people talking to me during key parts of dialog. It seems that people's insecurities and inability to be comfortable in themselves prevents them from shutting the fuck up, and this can make them burdensome (turn this around, and it will make sense why women treat 'symps' the way they do.....)
- Women seem to jock far more when I am alone. Ask yourself: would someone who is confident enough to relax by themselves in a social environment be attractive? Also: In this case, ask yourself if you are being dragged into their weak behaviours, or if you are simply perceiving that you are being dragged into their weak behaviours......
- If you're having a good time, you don't have to cut it short because the others want to go somewhere else, or are too restless to stay in the same place for too long. Side note: somewhere along the way, people seem to have gotten the idea that it is cool & attractive to be a 'rolling stone that gathers no moss'; while I am obviously all for independence, these types of flaky people make me realise that 'living for the moment' is not the same as 'living IN the moment'. Think about that one......

Cons:
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"I will not grow in the light, until I pass through the darkest caverns of my heart..."

"Temet Nosce"

people used to think I was a loser when I used to go out alone...I have so so much fun by myself

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

Go out by yourself and keep going out by yourself until you're only going out to hang out with your friends because their your friends and you feel like seeing them.

Did you ever see James Bond going out with a bunch of Hockey Buddies?

HAHAHA! SLEEP! How ya been? WHERE ya been? Good to see ya, buddy!

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

you guys better go out with this friend
Am I right mr ThaDadd!! ?

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“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Viktor E. Frankl

Haha yeah...K-I-D's are more deadlier than H-I-V's.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

It's nice to be back Brother Kidd! ~ I've been busy as a beaver stuffing pie


No young one ... Let's walk down the mountain
And fuck the entire herd!
Sleep

I love going out by myself, especially to the mall or just a bar. It definitely makes me feel like other people see me as mysterious when they see me well dressed and hanging out by myself. I don't have to worry about decision making with other people and it makes me feel like I'm my own leader.

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"Any good pimp is his own best company. His inner-life is so rich with cunning and scheming to out-think his whores." -Iceberg Slim

Company's good in moderation but I much prefer my own company.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

What's the general MO for you guys when you go out alone? Just post up in one spot and observe?

I'm not a wall flower, I am very social. I move around especially when it becomes too congested. There are just those moments when its good to get a drink or reward somebody with some proximity

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

"In battle, circumstances are continuously changing, and a TRUE shinobi has to be able to manipulate and maintain HIS chackras on the fly, if he ever hopes to prevail.

The time you need to just stand around trying to summon and control your is a luxury you won't have."
Kakashi to team 7, chapter 18: training day

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

I like posting up and watching the ebb and flow of the overall environment...doesn't mean I'm a wall flower either. I like walking around and mingling too...but I am ACUTELY aware of what is going on all around me AT ALL TIMES.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

Whatever I feel like doing in the moment.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.