Natural Freedom

Today I'm not going to write about myself, but a close friend - He's a guy younger than me (he's almost 19), he's got tons of succes with girls, one longterm gf, couple in line wanting him..
Why I'm writing here about him is, that few essentials disccused here he simply does opposite of and he's still got success..
For example, he's texting girls whenever he's bored on facebook/skype, they text him too.. He's often filling up space but they don't get disinterested in him, often it's the opposite and they chase him more
He told me that what attracts him the most to those girls is that they have some problems and he feels he can be of help with those problems - passively (space) and even actively (filling space). He told me he wants them to be happy and that he can somehow solve their problem or help - Kinda captain save the hoe, you know what I mean...
He told me he wouldn't be interested probably if it wasn't for the problems..

The stuff that he does.. It NEVER worked for me, it destroyed everything, so I ceased using his advice.. And he's very surpised that he hasn't seen me with a girl for so long lol, so he keeps on telling me how I must approach them etc.. Now he's not a symp but some rules he breaks to the point I'm like " What"..

What do you guys think ? Do you need more details ?

Different strokes for different folks, fufe...just do whatever still lets you sleep good at night. Of course if you cater to women you will get them (or rather they get you), but if the way of this forum isn't congruent with you, then find something that is.

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It's not that it's not congruent.. You guys helped me immensely, but I feel like it doesn't answer me everything when it comes to girls.. And given my weird taste for girls, meeting a girl I'm attracted to like once half a year, it's time consuming and frustrating experience

You sir, I promise.

I wasn't sure, but lately you're back again ... now I know I will have to :

TAKE ALL THOSE SHORT ANSWERS (One-liners, Short but insightful phrases) and put them in a "gems and precious threads" thread (by topics) ...

You're evil

Maybe my christmas present for the members

@fufe : FUCK the girls (litterally, fuck'em) until you're happy 'alone', stop putting pressure ... and re-read Kidd's answer, coz it seems you missed a part ... (the moon maybe)

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"You can tell a lot about a person by how they react when someone dies." - Charlie Kirk

fufe: there is a lot he is doing that you are either missing or mis-interpreting.

It also matters 'where he is coming from' when he does these things..

I would wager it is a different place than where you think he is coming from.

Kidd + GoldenBalls

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

GoldenBalls Me likey

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"You can tell a lot about a person by how they react when someone dies." - Charlie Kirk

I have a friend like that.

It comes down to...do you want to chase women and hound them to fuck you when they want to do it anyways.

Or do you wanna just be like fuck you and your games. Your curb kicked until you can act right.

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

You made it clear what he does.. He caters to their needs, instead of making them catering to his.

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And what is fear of need but need itself?

That's why it's all about mindset dude. There's no rules to this shit. You have to find what works for you and what feels good for you. I know nobody really digs my outlook too much on this forum but that's the way it is. If your confident in whatever you do then it will work.