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Author:  Altair [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 11:22 am ]
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Perhaps..time will tell.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 2:38 pm ]
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rekieter wrote:
I am reading his laws at the moment:)
So do You still think this situation is fixable through time and space?
The minute you stop thinking about it completely, it will then fix itself. :ugeek:

Give it a try...just stop posting about it and stop thinking about it...too many other things as other women in this works to ponder so hard on this. Just let it go and see what happens...seeing is believing. 8-)
Author:  rekieter [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 3:26 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:

The minute you stop thinking about it completely, it will then fix itself. :ugeek:
ok, just checking if I understood it correctly:
By it You mean this situation, and fixing mean that she will call/text/whatever (I remember what you posted: that people always start to think about you when you forget them)
or
By it you mean that I sooner or later will forget her and won't give a fuck if she calls or not.

Right now it is like watching a movie, I'm curious and i'd like her to contact me, but there is no sadness etc. Kinda weird.
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Give it a try...just stop posting about it and stop thinking about it...too many other things as other women in this works to ponder so hard on this. Just let it go and see what happens...seeing is believing. 8-)
I will stop it and try not to think about it - that was exactly the reason why I screwed up:) actually women are not my priority right now, I feel like I am at 50% of what I can really be. So for the next months it is all about me.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 4:16 pm ]
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I will stop it and not think about it
Fix'd! :ugeek:
Author:  Flow83 [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 4:35 pm ]
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Quote:
By it You mean this situation, and fixing mean that she will call/text/whatever (I remember what you posted: that people always start to think about you when you forget them)
or
By it you mean that I sooner or later will forget her and won't give a fuck if she calls or not.
B makes A more likely.

Notice however, that with option B you are happy either way.

On paper the choice is obvious, but there's a very large and apparent part of you from the posts (not being harsh it is basically programmed human nature) that would much rather have the success story, and then to tell us the success story, than the peace/happiness of actually not giving shit about it.

Three letter word at the core of it which is the heart of this work.
Author:  rekieter [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 9:12 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
Quote:
I will stop it and not think about it
Fix'd! :ugeek:
So that is the answer to both questions? Easier to said than to be done:/ I remember that when she dumped me I was cold as ice, calm, knowing that everything will be good. I wasn't analyzing I just knew. Is that gut feeling?

But after analyzing whole situation that feeling is gone.
Flow83 wrote:
Quote:
By it You mean this situation, and fixing mean that she will call/text/whatever (I remember what you posted: that people always start to think about you when you forget them)
or
By it you mean that I sooner or later will forget her and won't give a fuck if she calls or not.
B makes A more likely.

Notice however, that with option B you are happy either way.

On paper the choice is obvious, but there's a very large and apparent part of you from the posts (not being harsh it is basically programmed human nature) that would much rather have the success story, and then to tell us the success story, than the peace/happiness of actually not giving shit about it.

Three letter word at the core of it which is the heart of this work.
What's the word?:)
I won't deny that I'd like her back. But it is not about the success and telling anyone else. I'm telling you the truth, there's no point trying to people that r trying to help me and already helped by posting on this forum. I know that B is what I need, but I can't say that A is not something I'd like to happen.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 9:25 pm ]
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This is the part when you shut up and let it go...NOW. 8-)
Author:  Alchemist [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 10:23 pm ]
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rekieter wrote:

I won't deny that I'd like her back.
She ain't coming back dude.

Time to party. :mrgreen:
Author:  rekieter [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 10:53 pm ]
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I'm partying for like a month now, What I need is a break
Author:  rekieter [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 10:54 pm ]
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Alchemist wrote:
rekieter wrote:

I won't deny that I'd like her back.
She ain't coming back dude.
hmm and that is why? Man, if she is not then screw her. But if you wrote it just to get her out of my mind it just did the opposite. Given what Kidd wrote me and Morpheus I assume the she will contact me. Look what I've been asking all the time. What is the reason and basis of their claims. If I want to integrate something, I need to understand it.

However,like I said I'm letting it go. Started to meditate again. I noticed that this emotions come in waves, there was the time I felt I needed her- when I wrote that damn message. But now I'm calm.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 11:11 pm ]
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Everybody please shut up so he can shut up. :mrgreen:
Author:  rekieter [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 11:14 pm ]
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:lol: your comment reminded me of that movie lol:
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Author:  The Kidd!! [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 12:14 am ]
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rekieter wrote:
:lol: your comment reminded me of that movie lol:
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Sweet...another pic of 'Grinus and I in the Hamptons :mrgreen: ...now SHUT UP! 8-)
Author:  rekieter [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 6:43 pm ]
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it clicked today:) thanks guys:)
Author:  Rolan [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 3:00 pm ]
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rekieter wrote:
I think I let it go already:) (Or maybe I'm just fooling myself, but that nasty feeling is gone). Kidd tell me what do You guys mean by that-now I fell like this socially retarded kid in playground that doesn't know what other kids are talking about:P:P
This is what Women do. I also do it, because I know how and i like to play them at their own games. It can be fun fighting fire with fire, but fighting fire with water is best :lol:

My Ex G/F broke up with me many months ago- I wasn't offering enough, which is fair, but a man must stick to his principles of not catering to needy individuals. Anyhow, when she did it I was very hurt and started to question myself alot. She was with another guy within 2 weeks, if that. She cannot be on her own, which ironically decreases my attraction to her. 2 weeks after she was seeing him, she calls me and tells me she left the relationship before it was over. 3 weeks after that, she is calling me asking for sex advice(!), and asking whether I felt the same as her in that we had a different sexual relationship to anyone she's ever been with. 2 weeks after that she is sending me a poem that she wrote about us during our time together. She said she really wanted me to have it, because it is very charged(emotionally/sexually).

Now, why would she be doing all these things? A women who is over her ex does not keep them on the leash. I perceive her actions as making sure I don't forget her, which I had basically done before each time she initiates contact again. So it works! She needs to keep one claw in you, keep that carrot dangling. It's very clever and extremely ruthless of them. The reason why she did these things to me was because I created enough space for her to need to.

Try an experiment; Don't initiate any contact with her, see what happens. It will be entirely predictable.
Author:  Rolan [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 3:21 pm ]
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Morpheus wrote:

The other reason is that they're retarded sometimes...but hey if a bitch wants to delay her pass to awesome town. Why should I give a shit? :mrgreen:
I'd like to quote this for truth. Women can be fundamentally idiotic when it comes to this shit. On one level they understand what they're doing, but generally are so brainwashed and fickle they're like mentally challenged puppies. Well, perhaps it's more like they let emotion and neediness blind them. Chase you? But...but...I'm a girl! Chase ME! Buy ME shit! Do shit for ME! Now! Or you don't get ANY pussy!

That's pretty much it. Just say, 'Keep your damn pussy, I don't need it'.
Author:  rekieter [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 7:00 pm ]
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Yeah I know what you mean. Happened to me few times as well. However situation here is different, she contacted you, called etc. What I'm getting is being ignored and showing that she fell for that dude:)
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 7:03 pm ]
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SHADDAP! :twisted:
Author:  rekieter [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 7:08 pm ]
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oh dude, come on, I told you it clicked. We will see what will happen. Reading Sniper's and others posts where u guys analyzed their situation was a great insight. As I told You before-now it's about me.
Btw Kidd how can I find You on FB?
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 7:19 pm ]
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Btw Kidd how can I find You on FB?
I kind of have a secret identity...I keep this aspect of my life separate from my personal life. When/if I get to the point I feel I can trust to that point, then we'll talk about crossing that bridge...no offense. :geek:

That said, I do have a 'Tha Kidd' FB profile...but I can't even remember the last time I logged into it. :lol:
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