may I take from now this situation, guys? can Kidd or Grin and rest of the gens check me if I'm writing wrong.
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rekieter: hi mate, whats up?
now you have opportunity to have a very cool lesson about managing your emotions, so lets start:
1) lesson topic: dealing with rejection
2) person: you
3) theory: this forum
4) practice: your situation -> still in progress
5) interpretation: ....still in progress...
6) conclusion: .....
you are doing nr 4 now cause you arent with her but you still have mess in your head.
liave this guy alone cause his only for feeling the space. there is no point in analyze 'her and new bf'
you better focus on
YOU.
take a piece of paper and on your left write 'before relationship', right side 'after relationship'. write your feeling, behavior, mindset, values and believes, e.g my list from 3 years:
before = confidence, strong, feel good....
after = low-confidence, mess in head, more emotional.... what ever
pimp rule: start how you finish
if you check your list, right and left side are different so this mean you havent finish how you start.
next time when you are dealing with women be the same all the time (you gonna change any way but dont border for now
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start analyze your situation but compare it what Kidd or Grin (or other gens) are doing.
if you have any questions, type them down and read this forum (or read book recommended on forum)
hope you watched 'kickboxer', 'drunken master' etc.... at beginning they always have kicked asses.
after being defeated, we men hide.