I tell her you know what you wanna have a date with your co-worker? I think that's a great idea
Translation to her:This guy is not serious about the relationship and doesn't seem to care if i cheat on him so you know what i will go ahead and cheat on him
That's my take on it Morpheus.
You have absolutely NO control over what she is or is not gonna do. She would make up her mind beforehand.
Consider your wants before hers, that is what she is doing. Do you want to give your value to some girl that is showing she doesn't give a fuck about you?
Your short circuiting that bullshit she is trying on you, your basically saying do what your gonna do it won't have any effect on me. She is the one not being serious, you don't say yeah I'm gonna cook this guy dinner and stay at his house while I'm in a committed serious relationship with this other guy.
That's a whole lot of not your problem.
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