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i understood like a 40% of what you wrote, the same goes with your concepts, i mean the language, but you seem to believe that i'm slow or something, because you never answer my questions, could you please give me in afew words about your phylosophy

okt thanks, that's what i'm doing. the whole thing is about that we men are brainwashed to believe that women are the source of our happiness but the truth is that they have to be gratefull for us?

Bottom line is, women want sex more than we do, but over the years have effectively led us to believe that they don't. This way, they keep us feeling like we have to do all the work to 'win them over' and that we have to put up with them...which is BULLSHIT.

If in fact they want dick about twice as badly as we want pussy, then why are we as men working so hard to give them something that they already REALLY want?

Yep, that's the crux of it.

ummmm, nor should you just tell a random chick with signs that you want to fuck her, unless her signs are pretty blatantly stating that she wants to fuck you.

I'm going to keep hammering on this: I think some of you guys are WAY too hung up on this signs thing and you need to start putting yourself out there in a more confident and meaningful way, and start leading your interactions. You can't expect her signs to lead the way like semaphore on an airstrip.

You're expecting this "signs" and "signals" thing to be a one way street. Communication of any kind doesn't quite work like that. It's like you're in a foreign county, not bothering to learn to speak one word of the language and constantly guessing what the natives are saying....When she says Goop Gock Galoop Gock I think she's saying "hello i think you're cute" because of the way she says it, but I'm not sure and I don't know how to speak the language so I can't ask her what she means.

Think about where that leaves you. Role reversal. You're throwing signals at a girl, but she's just standing there studying you trying to figure out if you really do like her. She's not communicating anything to you.She's just stuck in her head second guessing your behavior, second guessing her intuition about the situation, second guessing everything, and despite your best efforts to flirt with her, she stays in her head. Is anything going to happen?

I'm picking up on a recurring theme on the forums lately. Guys seem to caught up in guessing what women are up to. I mean, if she's standing there, that's the time to just be on, be playful, have some fun for yourself. Trying to know for certain if she is joking or thowing signs at you...I don't see how that's going to lead to progress. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that the uncertainty factor is part of what builds sexual tension. I'm afraid that guys might just be finding more sophisticated ways of doing all the things that have blocked them in the past.

Have any of you even read this episode of mine?

Let's get something straight...I'm not saying that you need to see signs of jocking to approach. If you've read this entry, I started my experience with the lovely lady with the COLDEST of cold approaches...I mean, she had her back to me and I tapped her on her shoulder for chrissakes!

By knowing what conscious/subconscious signs of jocking look like, you can determine if the cconversation you've sparked up with a perfect stranger is welcomed or not...and also whether or not you should get the number or end the convo politely. Being able to access how she is responding to you on the minutest of levels allows you to accurately determine her level of interest and gives you the confidence to proceed or the intel to disembark. This saves you time and effort. I mean, who really wants to waste time trying to talk to THIS chick who is subtly not interested but being friendly, when her friend is all in your shit (in a GOOD way)?

Bottom line: Approach what you like...that's what I did in this story. Difference is, if she would have turned around and kept it professionally sterile, I would have quickly bid her a good day and moved on.

But I'm sure you are just going more with your gut instinct than actually analyzing the situation right?