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PostPosted: Wed Jun 01, 2011 11:59 pm 
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Hey guys this is so weird :? I'm about to tell you a weird story (or maybe it's not so weird). I'll keep it short...

Remember I told you about that girl I talked to and I told her that she has a nice ass?
well I was supposed to go out with her on Saturday night but I had my studies and I was too busy. I spoke to her on the phone and we went out tonight.

While we were on the date I noticed that she is very sexually open. She also seemed very horny so I thought why not?

so at the end of the evening we went to her place starting making out, took off our clothes...
and before we 'went at it' she said:

Sniper I want you to strangle me while we have sex

Me: say that again

Her: I want you to strangle me while we have sex that's the only way I can have an orgasm

Me: :shock: :? No I'm not going to do that

Her: come on, be open....

Me: Oh I don't think so...

Her: well in that case, we can't have sex.

Me: alright, I got up and started to wear my underwear

Her: No wait, I was just kidding.

so we had sex (which was not that good BTW) then I went home. Now why didn't I want to go along with her way (strangle):

A. because it's creepy
B. because she could have gone to the police and say I attacked her or made her have sex against her will...

I don't know this girl so well and who knows what was really on her mind...

I thought this thing only happens in the movies, lol. But I really don't beleive that Hooey- that she can't have an orgasm unless I strangle her? does that shit even make sense? :?

What do you guys think? was she just testing me or are some women really that whacko?

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 12:06 am 
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Sniper wrote:
I thought this thing only happens in the movies, lol. But I really don't beleive that Hooey- that she can't have an orgasm unless I strangle her? does that shit even make sense? :?
Yup it does make sense
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What do you guys think? was she just testing me or are some women really that whacko?
Yup they are

And some guys are also :lol:


see: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_asphyxiation

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 12:08 am 
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peregrinus wrote:
Yup it does make sense
really?
why would anyone need such a thing or have an orgasm?
Edit: I see you just added a link

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 12:36 am 
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Nice call on calling her bluff...failcakes for not giving her what she wanted sexually. :?

You wonder why it sucked? Because she wasn't that into it because SHE WASN'T GETTING WHAT SHE WANTED OUT OF IT.

I appreciate ANY opportunity I get to choke a bitch...this one practically begs her to choke and you pass?

I don't have the words... :lol:

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The Kidd!! wrote:
Nice call on calling her bluff...failcakes for not giving her what she wanted sexually. :?

You wonder why it sucked? Because she wasn't that into it because SHE WASN'T GETTING WHAT SHE WANTED OUT OF IT.

I appreciate ANY opportunity I get to choke a bitch...this one practically begs her to choke and you pass?

I don't have the words... :lol:
Kidd, you meant to say what she Needed not Wanted right?

and I wrote this:
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A. because it's creepy
B. because she could have gone to the police and say I attacked her or made her have sex against her will...
Ok, let's say that you don't see it as creepy what about scene B?

Kidd and peregrinus, have you ever had anything like this happen?

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 1:19 am 
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No...it's what she wanted you to do.

As far as scenario B goes...that's where trusting your gut comes into play. 8-)

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 2:40 am 
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The Kidd!! wrote:
OUT OF IT.

I appreciate ANY opportunity I get to choke a bitch...

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i would appreciate it too :mrgreen:


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 6:59 am 
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The Kidd!! wrote:
OUT OF IT.

I appreciate ANY opportunity I get to choke a bitch...

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i would appreciate it too :mrgreen:
I second this haha

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Sniper wrote:
why would anyone need such a thing or have an orgasm?

It's not just that - there are other things too. Squeezing, spanking, hitting and other forms of creating a distraction. A contrast from the physical pleasure of sex. This intensifies the pleasure. The truth is that it is only in contrast can you appreciate the pleasure of having something. The not having (contrast experience) adds basis to the having (preferred experience).

It's a bit like the new song effect. You can't stop listening to the song, but if you listen to it too much.....

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 2:48 pm 
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I purposefully did not read the other responses before posting my reply.

I had that exact same situation happen to me last year, and I did EXACTLY as you did. It played out EXACTLY the same way.

I'm not about to go there because of reasons you gave, and also I've heard of this going terribly wrong in some cases.

Alright now to see what the experts say...

**Edit: Interesting

My initial thoughts back then were I'd be all about it if I trusted the girl, but not with some girl I've known for a few days. But then this...
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Trust your gut


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@StephenP

wow you had that happen to you too? :lol:

@Kidd
you said trust your gut and I agree however if my gut was wrong then I could have been fucked. You know with the law on women's side and everything today, if she ever went to the police it would be hard to explain that this is what she was asking for...

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 3:10 pm 
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Soooo...you're saying...that you DON'T trust your gut? Interesting... :?

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The Kidd!! wrote:
Soooo...you're saying...that you DON'T trust your gut? Interesting... :?
I do trust my gut however sometimes I'm not sure if my gut is right...
see in the past (before I met you and your teachings) I used to sometimes fail when trusting my gut.

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Before my teachings you didn't know the difference between your gut and overthinking something...get it right. 8-)

Plus you couldn't interpret what your gut was trying to tell you nearly as well...those days are far behind you...accept it. :ugeek:

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The Kidd!! wrote:
Before my teachings you didn't know the difference between your gut and overthinking something...get it right. 8-)

Plus you couldn't interpret what your gut was trying to tell you nearly as well...those days are far behind you...accept it. :ugeek:
Yes that is true, new reality check :idea:

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Just you know...I can see the ego work you are putting...and it is appreciated...but ultimately, it is for YOUR benefit, not mine...I hope you know that. 8-)

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Sniper wrote:
@StephenP

wow you had that happen to you too? :lol:
Ya, I was kind of taken a back when it happened as I hadn't really heard of this specific turn on at the time. A quick internet search was very enlightening :lol:


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Sniper wrote:
Kidd and peregrinus, have you ever had anything like this happen?
Yes

Sometimes I have gone with it, sometimes I have not.

Trust your gut. If you really listen to it, it will tell you what to do.

StephenP wrote:
A quick internet search was very enlightening :lol:
Indeed :)

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Me and 'Grinus be choking bitches... :mrgreen:

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While we were on the date I noticed that she is very sexually open. She also seemed very horny so I thought why not?

so at the end of the evening we went to her place starting making out, took off our clothes...
and before we 'went at it' she said:

Sniper I want you to strangle me while we have sex

Me: say that again

Her: I want you to strangle me while we have sex that's the only way I can have an orgasm

This story reminds me of a little escapade of my own, I probably would have been more shocked about it if I hadn't read a book "The Secrets of Female Sexuality" by David Shade, that really opened my eyes but when a girl actually admitted this to me that's when I started to believe.

This girl was definitely sexually opened she sent me pics of her body telling me how she was getting it ready for me. :mrgreen:

We were what they call sexting now and days back forth but my problem was I wasn't patient and she got me hornier than motherfucker talking like that so I ended up spoiling that opportunity.

But anyway she wanted to know if we were to fuck she wanted me to rape her she and basically rough her up she wanted to be handled. Me back then would have no problem shit still don't now because if that chance ever happens again I'm all over it.

So to answer your question Sniper if you get that book I just mentioned you wouldn't believe half the shit women are thinking when it comes to sex that to me right there was an appetizer, as kidd and Peregrinus always say the rabbit hole goes deep.

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