HAVING THE WRONG MINDSET AFFECTS YOUR SEXUAL PERFORMANCE.
See, when I let myself be all sappy, I came faster than minute rice (well, a little longer than that, but nowhere near normal). I enjoyed it ALOT! Yet, when I went back to logical 'ol me, I almost COULDN'T cum...same girl, same plumbing. It was a CHORE to cum. So check THIS out, right?...
It could then be postulated that...if you are climaxing too easily with a woman, YOU ARE IN THE WRONG MINDSTATE...and vice versa!
...the stronger your position in the relationship, the harder it is for you to climax! This is potentially HUGE! This means that men don't need cockrings and the like to combat premature ejaculation...they just have to man up to make the woman desire them more than they desire the woman!
To put it bluntly, it could be used as a barometer of sorts! If you *think* a woman's pussy is too good and you have trouble hitting it properly, it is more likely your mind is putting her on a pedestal and making you feel like you are soooooo lucky to be fucking her rather than the actual physical characteristics of her vagina! How's THAT for non-conventional reasoning?
I can't believe I've never read this properly before. It's so true
It makes me wonder about my current relationship though, because I am being super fast
. I haven't been this quick since my first GF, 15 or 16 years ago. Infact, apart from the odd time(hell, which man hasn't), during all the subsequent encounters it has never been a problem or concern of mine; quite the contrary. With my previous GF it was often a chore to bust, but the sex was great nonetheless. I felt in complete control, giving her all the space in the world to her so that she could satisfy herself. 'I've never cum on a guy's cock before'. What did I do? The bare minimum. However, with my current GF it's all over the place. Granted her pussy feels great....but it's not my first rodeo gents. She sits on my cock, starts grinding away and as soon as I hear her say the words, 'Oh my GOD!' I'm like 'Ok I'm done'
I've not yanked my chain nor had sex in something like three months prior to her.
It's not like I think she's in control or more attractive than me, but I think I've got to meditate on something here