1) I was NOT finishing how I started. I had never been that sappy with her before. Yes, I genuinely love the girl, but I've always been nonchalant and almost borderline aloof with her from day 1...like it doesn't matter to me if she fucks with me or not...which, logically, is how I still ultimately feel. I'm sure my needy behavior threw her for a loop.
2) The 'nicer' and more 'emotional' I was, the more disinterested she seemed to become. This goes back to the whole "She wants a MAN, not a MOUSE" thing. You need to be the man a woman needs you to be, whether they THINK they need you to be that man or NOT. I was giving her what she WANTED...a caring, loving man that just wanted to hold her and whisper sweet nothings into her ear...and she really seemed like she wanted no part of it!
3) Most guys in my shoes at that point WOULD have started texting and calling trying to smooth something over that needed no further attention. For all of their good intentions, all they would have done is expedited her exit. This I did NOT do...
This thread is pure gold. BTw I would never expect you to feel so much emotion:)
I agree with your whole post but i have few questions to You Kidd:
In point one you said you weren't finishing as you started. I get that. But her bitchy behaviour came from you being so nice and emotional or just because of change in your behaviour? If you were like that from the beggining would this bitchiness occur?
This goes back to the whole "She wants a MAN, not a MOUSE" thing. You need to be the man a woman needs you to be, whether they THINK they need you to be that man or NOT. I was giving her what she WANTED...a caring, loving man that just wanted to hold her and whisper sweet nothings into her ear...and she really seemed like she wanted no part of it!
I have same experience as you, the more 'nice' I was the more their hidden bitch surfaced. But when you wrote "She wants a MAN, not a MOUSE" (I might get it wrong due to the language issuess) it means that at that particular moment you were acting like a mouse right? So it basically comes down to his - you can't be too emotional, nice etc, it makes you take female role in the relationship and she will act more like a man. On the other hand if a dude is nice from the beggining, gets some pussy and stays like this (finishing how he started) - will this hidden inside bitch pop up in his girl?