Natural Freedom

Let her step forward into the space.

Look man I feel were you are coming from.. it confuses me still, but I´m aware of it now.
However, the bottom line is..

You will automatically feel when you are in the leading position and you are being sought after. You will know when you experience it.
If that feelin ain´t there you ain´t leading.
Creating Space means that you STOP TRYING to lead and let her step up HER game in order to get with YOU. Not the other way around.

Conversely, let's say you know this broad who speaks to you everytime she sees you without provocation, usually touches you when she talks to you, and always positions herself where she can get a good look at you. This broad digs you. You don't have to ask her or her friends if she likes you or not. You can draw your own conclusion without compromising your suspicions.

One thing to lookout for is trying to use analyzed subconscious evidence. Sometimes a broad can be giving off the subtle signs and symptoms of jockin', and it may not have conciously hit her yet that she digs you. Strange but true. One needs to learn to differentiate between conscious and subconscious evidence prior to acting upon them.

Then maybe it's time to sit down, figure out what path you want for your life...then spend your time and energy working towards that goal instead of worried about women. Once you truly no longer care about them, then the magic will start to happen. Right now you are still too invested in women and outcomes...and it us fucking up your whole vibe. You have your whole life ahead of you...make it count.

I'm failing to see any progress. I got a lot of realisations, but nothing big changes. I'm needy as hell now and have failed in stopping it.
I'm too invested as Kidd said. But I don't know what to do with it.