Natural Freedom

right on Slim, also she was the one qualifying when it should be him qualifying her. I personally can't stand those " thick white chicks that only do black" that whole mindset turns me off. that shit just sounds derogatory to me, sounds as if a brother can't pull a Caucasian chick lest she ( in her world) is over weight ( not saying it is so, but...)

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

I have been radio silent for the last two weeks.Few days ago she sends me an invite on facebook to play a game.I don't respond to this and today she removes me from her fb and disables me from adding her which i find amusing.Is she trying to get me to bait?

You don't remove and block people that doesn't bother you somehow emotionally.If I were you I would pretend that I haven't even notice it, it will drive this bitch crazy:D

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Laying on the floor in a pool of blood and cum
My demons lay beside as I kiss them one by one
Then on that day I met a force that nothing will compare
I was born the son of evil when I fuck the devil there!

So it appears this space thing is working.She sends me a text saying "hey what up stranger?"after blocking me on Facebook.Should I ignore this msg until she adds me back on Facebook or grill her on this?

this is where YOU decide what to do.

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

Just trying to use this opportunity to steal the ball back into my court.Don't have a lot of experience with this.

Imo I just say that whatever happens do not be too invested. Speaking from my personal experiences, I found that overthinking any situation leads to doubt and constantly wondering if you did or said the right thing. As for this situation I say do not let it worry you as it seems built on rocky foundation.

I am still learning as well but I would also steer away from trying to "use space" as it seems like a more technical-I did this space thing now what's the next step- approach rather than internalizing a mindset if that makes sense. I would move away from steps and emulating behaviors until my mindset was congruent with the actions I was taking then it would not be so much a mystery of what is next.
Just my opinion.

For the record I pretty much ALWAYS defuse sexual come ons. I just dodge questions and let their minds fill in the blanks..to the point they can be in my room and I'll still be playing dumb. It's actually pretty funny once you get good at it.

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

What do you FEEL like doing?

What is your GUT saying to you?

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.

In closing, if you ever feel the need to ask if you're doing something right, the overwhelming odds are that you've done it completely wrong.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

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Best bet is not to do anything anyways

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Perfect behavior is born of complete indifference.