Then you must bring new evidence to light that counteracts the fact that you were needy.
You gave her that message.
Which means she sent that after you filled the space. Which means she does like you. This is my analysis.
Let`s focus on you, your 26 and have sick clout. So what she is doing is trying to get you on her terms with no conditions, she would rather lock you down. Ring and all that shit prolly
She has already chose you, all you have to do is kick back and wait. She knows your a good option, she might orbit. Let her. To use a metaphor if you were the sun she can be Pluto..kinda like a planet but demoted to the point that it`s not really a planet.
You showed you were needy, so give her new evidence that shows you don`t give a fuck by doing nothing. Minimal effort. Maximum rewards.
She claimed that "I gave her an ultimatum" - regarding what I said to her - I don't see her as a friend and if she does see me that way there's no point in wasting our time. So in her little brain I forced her LOL
BTW finally ichecked the word 'clout' in dictionary -i knew what you guys mean by it but didn't acctually know the meaning of the word lol
Then she said on Facebook that she has unresolved feelings for you.
Whaaaaaaat??? when? now I'm mindfucked LOL