(This happened a few days ago)
Backstory: This is one of the girls that is in the same organization in school of which I'm in. Hung out in social settings, but nothing much. I could sense she was jocking before, but is aggressive and fronts.
A city event was going on this night and the city was wild! Parties everywhere. I just get off a 10+ shift at work and was set on going out even though I had work in the early morning again.
Hit her up and meet her and her friends later in the night. I meet with her and all her gfs. Me and this girl, lets cal her Cindy, were on from the start. For whatever reason she was fronting way less tonight. I sensed it was different from the beginning we met that nite.
A lot of touching was going on and fast forward...we're making out in front of her friends place. She starts asking me questions about how come I kissed her and all this stuff. To clarify she was giving tongue and biting my lips, so I found the "asking why" somewhat off topic, but I was straight up with her. I sensed she began to feel "out of control of the situation" and panicked a bit with the questions. It took out the flow of the interaction for me; turn off.
We leave her friends house and her friend is making sure I walk her home. I let Cindy know my place is across the street, lets go there. She said no lets go to her place...then it gets fuzzy, because I was a bit drunk. Next thing I know she's walking home by herself and I'm walking home too.
I text her "let me know if you got home safely".
No response.
A bit worried in the morning (guilt
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) and sent another text.
No response.
[Here's where I lost my footing]
Another text...
Dude: Hey sorry for not walking you home :/ not sure what happened
Cindy: I'm a big girl. I can take care of myself.
I leave it at that.
Later...send some other childish texts that really have no content other than filling space. (drunk)
Day after, and I'm not sure why I texted the following texts (was drinking with my sister when this occurred), but it happened.
Dude: Do you want to hangout later or just have that kissing a one night drunk thing ;P
Cindy: LOL! What's with the winky faces??
Dude: lol. What's with evading the question??
Dude: I'm fine with both; friends or friends+
Cindy: It's called having better game.
Dude: Ok cool
*face palm*
(cracks me up going through this again, ego hurt a bit, but nothing ground moving. LEARNING LESSONS)
When I wrote "ok cool" I was sincerely not tripping. I was only upset at my logical malfunction.
The scenarios that I think could possible play out:
a) It's done. Goodbye.
b) The indifference and not chasing stirs her curiosity enough to where she wants to hangout again after dealing with a bunch of symps.
Star_Above talking about frontin wrote: |
It just means that she's into you but for whatever reason is playing hard to get and is saying she's not. One big one is that she does like you, but gets more of an ego boost from rejecting you than being with you (If you're putting it out there that you like her), then as soon as you don't want her the ego boost for her will come from getting you so she'll be on your tip hard. As a general rule YOU playing hard to get and showing no interest will get her to quit fronting and chase you.
Let me know what you guys think.