They range from saying "the guys a douchbag" to "hes perfect."
Really read this again and ponder on this.
Then consider the 'snake oil salesmen' who are under the impression that one method fits all women.
This actually hurt my head a bit. For some reason, I couldn't tell exactly what you were saying for a while. My brain was going "this is it!! But wait, this doesn't fit...." over and over again. At first I thought the 'snake oil salesmen' is 99% of everyone in society. However, it didn't feel right, so I thought you were talking about me. These thoughts went back and forth for a while, until I concluded that you're talking about projecting and mirror.
On a side note, most snake oil salesmen know their products are bullshit, while 99% of all people truly believe all the crap about how women like nice guys and all that, even though evidence clearly shows otherwise.