Okay I lied.
Here's THE quote that ends the introduction :
However, I must forewarn you. I am writing this book from the perspective of an alpha female
type (me) who loves to be passive to her more dominant alpha male type (Patrice). I do not claim that everyone is the
same type, nor that everything is this book is the ultimate end-all, be-all answer for every single person reading it. I
acknowledge that we are all different people with different desires and require different things to be happy. However,
there are some basic, natural elements that are true when it comes to all human beings, and there will be plenty to leam
from and apply to your relationship(s) in the many pages of this book. Take from each chapter what works for you, but
the key is to not lie to yourself or your partner about what works best. Do not base everything solely on your feelings, or
your lack of comfort with the truth, because therein lies the absence of rational thinking. Remember, most relationships
fail from the beginning because we lie to our partners and we lie to ourselves, fabricating the truth until we get
comfortable with that person. Then, when our true colors emerge, we find that we do not really like each other and move
on to our next lie. This book is designed to help you stop that cycle by first making you look at yourself in the mirror and
take responsibility for your darkest colors. That mirror was the genesis of my relationship with Patrice.