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Author:  peregrinus [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 11:55 am ]
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Originally posted by GK2 in this thread: http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... 426#p39426

TEDx Glasgow - Gary Wilson - The Great Porn Experiment
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

WATCH
Author:  fufe [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 12:42 pm ]
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Time to stop fapping :( :( :(

This is pretty much about sexual transmutation isn't it.. By watching porn your brain is liek "lol wtf it's so easy to get the best stuff, no need to do anything else", instead of "Ok let's do this X,Y,Z stuff to get that good feel etc"
Author:  GoldenBoy [ Sat Jun 21, 2014 7:49 pm ]
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AlexJ version : http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... 116#p28116
Author:  TheDude [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 5:27 am ]
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I'll share that using porn excessively diminished MY life. It was not the porn solely that did that. It was I who chose to use it excessively that diminished my life and took me through a wicked-downward-spiral.

I use to think porn was "bad".

Porn is porn, but someones got to watch it for it to be "bad".

edit: Great share btw! It needs to be talked about more and brought into the light. If women can be so patient sexually, so can we.
Author:  fufe [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 8:40 pm ]
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You know, I would be actually quite interested in a study of affects of porn on women - And I don't mean acting in the movies :lol:
I know a lot of girls that watch porn.. A LOT.. I don't think men are the only ones affected
Author:  Dali [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 2:02 am ]
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fufe wrote:
You know, I would be actually quite interested in a study of affects of porn on women - And I don't mean acting in the movies :lol:
I know a lot of girls that watch porn.. A LOT.. I don't think men are the only ones affected
Do they allways masturbate when seeing porn? I think masturbation is the trigger for anyone recieving visual erotic input, because that's when the vicious loop it's created, heck even I have it.
Other than that, when ->only the mind<- is engaged, and no touching allowed it's just fantasizing. [See strip clubs]
Also, I think this doesn't change the fact that they have the upper hand when choosing a male (if that's what you're wondering)... Just that the girls that look heavy porn <<wish>> that the males they like, have a king size sausage.
Author:  TheDude [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 2:21 am ]
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Dali climaxing is what 'hooks' the person to porn. The high they get off it may end up in them wanting it more.

I agree with the rest of your stuff. Women being the choosers aren't nearly as affected as men. Like you said, their preference of 'types' of men may alter after being a heavy porn watcher/user.
Author:  The GK2 [ Wed Aug 13, 2014 9:02 pm ]
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I am now on day 30, and I can't recommend this enough.

The benfits I've experienced so far, most of which started very early (from day 4):
  • For the time in life I truly feel like a man. I get the same, intense feeling while taking cold showers, but with NoFap it's more contant.
  • Increased energy, at least a by a factor of 2, which is resulting in an interesting snowball effect.
  • More emotionally stable. Generally more happy and optimistic in life.
  • Women are jocking me much more blatantly.
  • More approaches, all by women. This was almost non-existent before.
Author:  The GK2 [ Wed Aug 13, 2014 9:11 pm ]
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The GK2 wrote:
  • Increased energy, at least a by a factor of 2, which is resulting in an interesting snowball effect.
One of which is posting more on this forum :lol:

Another one is, and this one is strictly with quitting porn, is that I've started to have sexual desires I didn't have before. These are more true to who I am, since they are coming from within.

I want women more that before, and so I am much more open to cold approaching now. Also I am much more inclined to fantasize, which results in stumbling upon nice new ideas :D
Author:  Knight [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 1:32 pm ]
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I'd be interested to know if you're just not watching porn or are not masturbating as well. I think this is something that I need to get on board with a give serious action to. What is the longest anyone on this forum has voluntarily gone without sexual stimulation?
Author:  peregrinus [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 10:39 pm ]
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Knight wrote:
I'd be interested to know if you're just not watching porn or are not masturbating as well. I think this is something that I need to get on board with a give serious action to. What is the longest anyone on this forum has voluntarily gone without sexual stimulation?
for me : http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... 7245#p7245
Author:  The GK2 [ Thu Aug 21, 2014 1:59 am ]
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Knight wrote:
I'd be interested to know if you're just not watching porn or are not masturbating as well. I think this is something that I need to get on board with a give serious action to.
Yes, both.
Author:  Aragorn [ Thu Aug 21, 2014 9:59 am ]
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I'm still jacking off somewhere around 1-2 times a week, but not watching porn, and that's been pretty big.

And like bliss said, porn is porn. There's nothing inherently bad about it. What's trippy (and somewhat embarrassing to admit) is that I've lost almost all desire for it after patching things up with my mother :oops:
Author:  Dali [ Thu Aug 21, 2014 3:04 pm ]
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moose35 wrote:
I'm still jacking off somewhere around 1-2 times a week, but not watching porn, and that's been pretty big.

And like bliss said, porn is porn. There's nothing inherently bad about it. What's trippy (and somewhat embarrassing to admit) is that I've lost almost all desire for it after patching things up with my mother :oops:
:o
Wait... W. ..what does it mean the last bit ? :shock:
Author:  Aragorn [ Thu Aug 21, 2014 9:42 pm ]
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Well I've had a broken relationship with my mom since I was 16. We talked things out last weekend. I usually have to resist every day to not watch porn or jack off or whatever. Didn't even cross my mind this week.

Might be too early to tell, and it might be unrelated (I did develop really strong feelings for a girl after hooking up, which is a fucking trip to observe now), but it feels like patching things up meant something too.
Author:  peregrinus [ Thu Aug 21, 2014 10:56 pm ]
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moose35 wrote:
What's trippy (and somewhat embarrassing to admit) is that I've lost almost all desire for it after patching things up with my mother :oops:
Find a friendly student psych and let her loose on that.

It'll drive her mad.
Author:  Flow83 [ Fri Aug 22, 2014 1:40 am ]
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Dali wrote:
moose35 wrote:
I'm still jacking off somewhere around 1-2 times a week, but not watching porn, and that's been pretty big.

And like bliss said, porn is porn. There's nothing inherently bad about it. What's trippy (and somewhat embarrassing to admit) is that I've lost almost all desire for it after patching things up with my mother :oops:
:o
Wait... W. ..what does it mean the last bit ? :shock:
Much, much more than almost any guy is comfortable even entertaining as a possibility :lol:
Author:  Dali [ Fri Aug 22, 2014 2:10 am ]
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Flow83 wrote:
Dali wrote:
moose35 wrote:
I'm still jacking off somewhere around 1-2 times a week, but not watching porn, and that's been pretty big.

And like bliss said, porn is porn. There's nothing inherently bad about it. What's trippy (and somewhat embarrassing to admit) is that I've lost almost all desire for it after patching things up with my mother :oops:
:o
Wait... W. ..what does it mean the last bit ? :shock:
Much, much more than almost any guy is comfortable even entertaining as a possibility :lol:
Yes because there's definitely a sexual tone with mommy in that statement. I think, that's why I was shocked. Still I am.
I mean we came out off the thing (if we naturally) and almost all of us, got in some time in our lives obsessed or deeply attached to the very same thing (vagina, femenine energy, etc). Thing is why?, then muster the courage and balls to go and talk and untangle or maybe slash some of the essence of same entity that gave us birth and disrupts our energy, this if we do not know how to handle it, somewhat. :idea:

I'm curious moose35 what topics have you specifically talked with your mom?, (Of course, you can decline you response here, because it'll be so intimate to you, and that's ok)
I'm just asking out of sheer curiosity.

Good for moose35! :D
Author:  Aragorn [ Fri Aug 22, 2014 8:22 am ]
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Yeah, Flow is right. :lol: You can all probably guess what it means.

Basically, I just felt her as a mother for the first time in a long, long time. We basically did a recap of the last 6 years, not in an angry or hostile manner, not even placing blame, but just clarifying the mindset behind some of her and my reactions/decisions.

She even said something along the lines of her being worried when I moved to a new high school, because she could see the same need for approval in me that she often feels, and how she was afraid when I made some dumb decisions to try to fit in (way too many to count). Hearing that was huge on a lot of levels (but the honesty behind it, mainly).

I could barely exchange a couple of sentences with her, and don't remember the last time we made eye contact. That talk though, we sat across from each other for almost 2 hours and just talked about things. No I forgive you was needed, it was implied and understood by both.

Same night, I:

1.) Thought I lost my wallet in the bus and got my bus ticket picked up by a middle aged smiling lady, without me even saying a word to her. It was like 5 euros, which is an incredible level of generosity for a stranger in Central Europe. Found the wallet buried in my backpack, thank god.

2.) Went out with a group of girls, all of whom were dtf. That's never happened to me before. Felt like Hugh Hefner.

3.) Didn't have enough money to pick up a bottle of liquor at the store. Didn't matter, lady behind the counter said I could bring back the rest anytime. We ended up drinking a couple shots when I did.

4.) Had the most mind-blowing and intimate experience with one of those 3 girls. Fooling around, but also periods of just looking into each others eyes for an hour and sharing some very personal things. It sounds sappy, blue-pilly or whatever, but, again, I've never had that level of intimacy with a girl before. I've hooked up with a few, but it was glorified masturbation.

So we'll see where this all goes. The road ahead is observing the attachment I have to that one girl and accepting it for what it is (I've been trying to push it out of my system for the past couple of days).

Anyway, this thread got very derailed. Or maybe it didn't.
Author:  peregrinus [ Sat Aug 23, 2014 3:23 pm ]
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moose35 wrote:
Anyway, this thread got very derailed. Or maybe it didn't.
It did not.
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