Different Drum - Mike Nesmith
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Different_Drum
Nesmith was a talented performer and songwriter, and he proved it with this tune, which he wrote before he joined The Monkees. He explained in 1971: "Most of the songs I did write, they didn't want, so on the last few albums I didn't contribute much in the way of material. I took them 'Different Drum' and they said all it needed was a hook. They asked me to change it and told me it was a stiff. I couldn't change it, and took it to Linda Ronstadt, who recorded it two weeks later, and it became Number One."
Like "Me And Bobby McGee," this is a song written by a guy that switched genders when a female recorded it. With a male narrator, the girl is tying him down, and he has to leave her to strike out on his own. With Ronstadt singing it, the girl become the one who is reigned in, and leaves her man so she can do her own thing. Notice that she ends up describing the guy as "pretty," which makes a lot more sense when it was Nesmith singing about a girl.
Linda Ronstadt Version -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3Nq48sHF8M
Susannah Hoffs Version -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GRO5ZZuJGYI
An early male version:
Greenbriar Boys -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaukXklUHNk
Now contrast and compare with his own versions:
Mike Nesmith - v1 -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-SHHZ8xpV0
Mike Nesmith - v2 -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSgB338VfIs
Really listen to the lyrics how they were meant to be.