Natural Freedom

http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Ploytation-Ma ... 0966963903

Sound harsh? Perhaps it is. But think about it - we as men tend to make sex one of the biggest priorities in our lives. With the emphasis that we put on it, you would think it's even more important than water, food or even shelter. Most of us will go to just about ANY length to get women to sleep with us, even if it means compromising our integrity, self-respect and self-esteem in the process! Of course, women are going to pick up on this desperation and pathetic neediness and are going to PURPOSEFULLY string us along and make us miserable. Why? Because they know that they can basically get away with anything and treat us anyway they want to if the men think that they'll get SOME kind of sexual reward for all of the crap that he's so bravely taking from her!

Yo guys, WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE! WHY ARE WE BLAMING WOMEN FOR THIS?? Think about it, are women really the stupid ones here? If this is the way that men behave, why should we expect women to treat us any different or better than they do? If I were a women and had to deal with a man going out of his way to get me into the sack, I would treat him the same way myself, all the while snickering behind his back about what a groveling, sniveling, spineless sack of s-t he's being! Why shouldn't I? I am not in any way saying that ALL men are like this, or that all WOMEN are this way either, but I've seen enough examples in my life to conclude that a majority of the members of both sexes ARE! Guys, I honestly believe that sometimes we BEG for this kind of treatment from women. It's like we can't get enough of it! What happened?

So what's the solution? Here's one for starters: STOP MAKING SEX THE BIGGEST PRIORITIY IN YOUR LIFE! Have a life that you can be proud of! Have several things in your life that you are passionate about and that you are involved in! Take your main focus off of sex! Once you stop needing sex so much, you'll find more often than not that it happens much more naturally. Here's a tip for dealing with those gorgeous, gold-digging types of women who are guilty of this behavior: Make a commitment to refuse to submit to their mind games any longer! Turn the tables around on them if they pull this stunt by demanding to have sex with them FIRST before doing anything for them or giving anything to them! And if they refuse to agree to this arrangement (as so many probably will), THEN YOU DON'T DO HER THE FAVOR! WALK AWAY! NO EXCEPTIONS! END OF STORY! No, you didn't get to have sex with her, but at the same time you also didn't end up tossing your dignity and self-respect down the toilet either! I must agree with the opinion of another reviewer of this book that's posted here named Matt Campbell when he said that he would rather go without sex than to participate in these games any longer. He must be one example of somebody who has a pretty fulfilling life. Bravo!

In closing, this is a book which is pretty funny to read! I was certainly entertained, no doubt about it. I too agree with the consensus of a lot of reviewers of this book about it being more of a rant. That's the way I thought about it. However, Mr. Matt Fitzgerald needs to realize this: That some men out there (well sadly, MOST men) need to understand that they are ultimately responsible for their own lives, actions and choices, and just how much BS they're willing to put up with in this situation. Take responsibility and STOP THE BLAME GAME!

Kidd's thread at the pirate boat explains this well.

But Sniper you are still focused on other guys and still thinking in black and white, that's what happens when you read this stuff at least at first, instead of focusing on how this will wake men up, focus on what you're getting out of it, how is it benefiting you?.