i was reading it about 4 months ago, i stoped becasue i did't feel ready to continue, maybe i start reading it again, the things i read and did't really understood becasue i was trying to make it fit with my own life, now i understand those parts and it flows natural, its' a good book but i see it as the power of now(nothing practical) and it may confuse some men without some level of awareness
I think the book is good for men who have some basic understanding of the power dynamics first. If someone just starting out reads it , he might think that he is supposed to put women on a pedistal and that would not be good....
but for advanced guys who already have a sense of the power dynamics could get some value from it. Again I don't agree with everything Deida says but some of it did resonate with me...