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 Post subject: What to say to women ??
PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2011 11:37 pm 
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I know you guys emphasize that isn't what you say that"s important but first of all how can you even tell when a eoman is interested in you I know you can't look too hard but man there is just too many rules to follow.

Let me start with this problem usually I can tell from the outside looking in when a female is attracted to someone by how much longer they look at the person or how they laugh at there jokes Etc.

thanks to the kidds observation article I have been able to pick this up better but my problem is how can I tell when they're are attracted to me with some women I talk to and if some friends are around usually after I'm done talking with a woman they say dude she was into you.....

I have trouble picking up on this what can I do about this ??

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2011 11:50 pm 
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Simple...stop narrowing your focus and pay attention. 8-)

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 12:04 am 
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Okay but how did you do expand your awareness to your surroundings I want mine similar to yours and if at all possible like duke togo's as well

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 12:14 am 
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Gotta put in the work to get the results....practice and time is what I benefitted from most...

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 12:23 am 
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Understood so what was your method for achieving this level of awareness and thank you for answering my questions

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 12:38 am 
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I didn't do anything different from what I've outlined...I just had a laser like focus because I wanted it that damn badly. If you want something bad enough, you'll do what it takes to get it.

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 11, 2011 8:52 pm 
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Way of a Natural wrote:
Let me start with this problem usually I can tell from the outside looking in when a female is attracted to someone by how much longer they look at the person or how they laugh at there jokes Etc.
From the above, you are capable.

What is different when you are watching from the outside, compared to the inside?

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peregrinus wrote:
Way of a Natural wrote:
Let me start with this problem usually I can tell from the outside looking in when a female is attracted to someone by how much longer they look at the person or how they laugh at there jokes Etc.
From the above, you are capable.

What is different when you are watching from the outside, compared to the inside?
Hey I tried to answer this post earlier but it wouldn't let me anyway......

I think the problem might be I am possibly getting in my own way I think I am worried about being cool and trying to find signs of attraction that I'm in my own head so much that I'm possibly missing it altogether .

Instead of being my true authentic self I"m probably too wrapped up in getting booty and I'm possibly too attached to the outcome.

Damn grinus you got that much info from me with only that one question I must be subconsciously doing this,

Question how did you achieve a more peaceful mind to get rid of your mind chatter ?

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 12, 2011 9:57 pm 
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Way of a Natural wrote:
Damn grinus you got that much info from me with only that one question
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It is not the answers you seek, you know those.
It is the questions you seek.
Way of a Natural wrote:
Question how did you achieve a more peaceful mind to get rid of your mind chatter ?
Was sure we talked about this recently, ah yes, see Letting Go

Sure there are other posts, as I remember other people asking this same thing fairly recently

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