Thanks guys
Btw Kidd, there's another thing..
I thought I am not mind-game manipulative like you (I don't mean it in an offensive way, just the INTJ Mastermind stuff), but looking back and reflecting, I am manipulative A LOT, but in a different manner - I like to look at it as a more light-side to it (Getting guys and girls together for example, I did that couple times), I'm currently investigating if our methods differ, or our motivations, or both...
It's interesting and I see why INTJ and ENFJ ppl don't usually are good friends - We are too simmilar in this regard and can't manipulate each other