Natural Freedom

Hey Kidd,

you have talked about it on a few posts and I read everything but I still don't 100% get it yet.
you said that the social matrix makes men more emotional while logic is men's greatest strength.

So let me see if I understand you correctly:
from what I have gathered you said to use more logic and less emotion when needed.
So when you feel let's say 'needy': you use logic to overrule that feeling?

So could you give an example of how you do it so I could understand better.

I'll give an example and you can tell me if I'm right or correct me:

Let's say I feel 'needy' then I need to 'switch' from my emotional brain to my analytical\logic brain and remind myself that the 'needy' is just an emotion and that no women can ever make me truly happy from the inside?
Or that the emotion I'm feeling right now is because I'm not happy from the inside and I think that a woman's affection will cover up the bad feeling I have from the inside....

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Yup...basically.

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Ok I see, thank you

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Also, like Kidd's said before...if you start to feel needy over a girl using logic would be remembering that "normal" girls actually have a very ugly nature and there's nothing special about them.

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A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Defenately.

Emotions can also often come from having certain believes (unconcious). Like if you unconciously (somewhat) believe that a women will make you happy/peacefull (if you find being happy/peacefull important). Then analizing that idea/believe, and seeing through analasise that the current emotion and believes behind it are an untruth/false. You correct yourself (your current believes/ideas). And thus over time, this new way of seeing it/believe will overrule/replace the old believes and thus the emotions you will have when you want "to have" a certain girl.

For me. The best a girl has ever given me, is orgasms and affection. Which both made me feel nice and good. But ime, feeling happy and peacefull goes beyond the temporary good feelings of orgasms and a affection form others. And feeling happy and peacefull is what i've found and find the most important thing for me. And since a girl(s) can't provide that. The thing a girl can provide for me, after this realization, did lose some/much value (since i first beleived, recieving affection/love from a girl was the most important thing in life) for me. Thus I also became way less needy for it. And since then, I also haven't done things that compromised my feeling of happiness or peacefullness for the (possible) sex or affection of a girl.

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thanks guys,

we also must remember (David X reminds that all the time) that there are more women than men on earth. And even if you feel something for some girl there is always going to be plenty of other girls that will make you feel the same or even more....

now another insight not specifically about this:

In the past when I was not thinking like this, when I saw\met a girl who I thought was special (I said 'thought' because after a while I realized that there was nothing so special about that girl- most girls just seem nice and sweet but are ugly in nature) I used to think: if only I can have her: wow. If I lose the chance with her: bummer...
But very soon afterwards you meet another girl and get the same kind of reaction.

Because what society brainwashed us about 'love' is for the most part: just a chemical reaction in the brain, nothing more...
And women and men hook up and stay together only for the value that they exchange (as we talked about here before) the 'true love' Holywood BS is nothing more then a program of the matrix.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h0GqRx3BhIE

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

It's kind of ironic how something that ultimately fucks things up for people sells so well.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

People looooooooove a happy ending.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

That's probably why I like tragic endings in movies, just because it's refreshing to see something different, I don't really have the words for this but it also feels more realistic to see that at least once in awhile, if that makes sense.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

well the main reason that people love watching movies is because they want to 'escape from reality' for a little bit. If most movies showed reality then most people won't see them

It is however importent to remember (and most guys figure this out very quickly) that it's another program of the social matrix to make people not see the truth. It is not as bad as MTV music videos, porn or all that other social matrix crap But in the end movies have to make money so most of them will try to project a perfect reality. But one this is good:
today some movies are more realistic unlike the genre of movies made in the 1930's which always projected a perfect reality.

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

You should check out Black Swan, it's an intense psychological thriller, I won't get into detail about the story but it's about Natalie Portman's character fighting with (dark) herself and reality, it's proper dark.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."