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PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 12:40 am 
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Wanna know how I got over approach anxiety?

I just told myself that the worst they can do is say no...they are not going to try to murder me or anything.

I once asked almost 20 girls to go to a formal dance when I was in high school. Most of you would have stopped at one, if THAT. But that didn't stop me...know why? Because I was DETERMINED to have a date for that dance...and no amount of approach anxiety was going to stop me from getting what I wanted.

The more you experience rejection, the less it stings in future instances.
regrding the last sentence, won't your confidence with women go down a lot if you experience a lot of rejections?

how did you experience a lot of rejections and not let it hurt your confidence (with women)?

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 1:00 am 
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Re read what you quoted...it's in there. 8-)

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 1:08 am 
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I see thank you ;)

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 11, 2011 1:53 am 
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It won't affect you if you have the right mindset about it, if you don't though you'll just go crazy, become a mysoganist and give up dating altogether.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2011 11:14 pm 
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It's choose or lose with me. If I approach and she isn't receptive, I'm usually just laughing in my head, because she just missed a great opportunity at meeting a Macknificent individual. It took a while 2 get 2 that point tho...

Btw: after doing some approaches you quickly realize that the opening line doesn't mean shit!!!! It's all about the direction you take the convo after that. Me personally, I like to start qualifying here as quickly as possible. I usually just ask an open ended question like "what' your story?", "what are you about? I use the answers she gives me to guage her interest level and figure out how I should proceed. If she's on a young playas jock... You can bust out an insta-date 2 a coffee spot or something to solidify the connection. If she's giving me some lukewarm responses, then I might hang in there for a min and bust out a time-constraint on that ass and just exchange numbers... Like old folks pissing, I guess it all depends...

But my basic strategy remains the same... Get her more invested in the interaction from the get go, so the scale of compliance is tipping in my favor;)

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 11:47 am 
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zro7DHqz ... ure=relmfu


Their videos : http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... 482#p13482

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 9:16 am 
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No wonder they get rejected :? :roll: :arrow: :|

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 12:08 pm 
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Resonance wrote:
No wonder they get rejected :? :roll: :arrow: :|
There is a lesson to it nonetheless ...

Look at their other videos (at least for entertainment, these guys are hilarious) ...

Nerds : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YvBXQsPbQ5w
Rap Lyrics : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0CrQQGMvA8g

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 12:45 pm 
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alright, so other than this being entertaining and funny- what's the success rates these guys have?
or is it all about having a laugh and not getting much success?

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 28, 2012 1:35 pm 
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Sniper wrote:
alright, so other than this being entertaining and funny- what's the success rates these guys have?
or is it all about having a laugh and not getting much success?
I posted the rejection video for the relevancy of this thread (because it doesn't matter whether you get rejected, it's THEIR loss).

I watch them to laugh (the rap lyrics is :lol: ), but they do this for guys who take this too seriously ... IMO

They do / say things because they want to, and it makes them laugh and have a good time.
Their success rate is irrelevant imo, because it's FAR LESS than this forum allows (because you know who jocks you), and they don't care, they like approaching many women to make these videos...

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