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| Author: | Alchemist [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 1:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Bowing their heads down |
Sometimes a chick walks towards me or in my direction, sees me then bows her head down, not before but right when they see me. Like they notice me and bow their heads down keeping their eyes fixated on the floor until their backs are turned to me, does that mean anything?. |
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| Author: | The Kidd!! [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 2:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down |
Yeah...it means that they don't want to be approached/bothered. Nothing against you personally, but there could be a lot of different reasons for this, mainly involving personal issues in THEIR lives. Unfortunately, so many dumb ass Amorati types would still push through this obvious 'please don't bother me' display and approach anyway...which makes them even more anti-social in the long term. |
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| Author: | Sniper [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 3:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down |
Yea, some girls and also guys have social anxiety or could be other problems. It's not personal against you. And I have seen guys trying to approach women like that where it's obvious they don't want to be approached. That's one of the problems with teachers promoting the 'numbers game'. Many guys approach women who don't want to be approached in the first place -for whatever reason (spending time and energy on the wrong women) |
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| Author: | Alchemist [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 10:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down |
That makes sense, this happens when I'm going about my day (I never have any intent to approach them) like if I'm at work just standing there at my station minding my own business or just walking down the street they do this. I had a feeling I didn't personally provoke this reaction, I always thought that maybe it's because maybe they were intimidated by my looks. |
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| Author: | Scarf [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 4:22 pm ] | |
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down | |
I had a feeling I didn't personally provoke this reaction, I always thought that maybe it's because maybe they were intimidated by my looks.
I have to say there is an element to this. But it is not really about how you look, its about how you are feeling that registers on your face. If you are feeling great, not only would the girl more likely to be interested, but you would never have noticed them anyway (because you're too busy enjoying yourself). Instead, you will end up with women directly looking at you, waving at you**, sometimes (and sometimes often) approaching you. They are drawn to your joy. **If a woman waves at you, approach immediately. |
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| Author: | The Kidd!! [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 6:08 pm ] | ||
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down | ||
I had a feeling I didn't personally provoke this reaction, I always thought that maybe it's because maybe they were intimidated by my looks.
I have to say there is an element to this. But it is not really about how you look, its about how you are feeling that registers on your face. If you are feeling great, not only would the girl more likely to be interested, but you would never have noticed them anyway (because you're too busy enjoying yourself). Instead, you will end up with women directly looking at you, waving at you**, sometimes (and sometimes often) approaching you. They are drawn to your joy. **If a woman waves at you, approach immediately. |
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| Author: | Alchemist [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 6:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down |
So what you're suggesting Scarf is that they're mirroring how I feel?. |
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| Author: | The Kidd!! [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 7:21 pm ] | |
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down | |
So what you're suggesting Scarf is that they're mirroring how I feel?.
Not really...it's more like subconsciously reacting to your vibe.
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| Author: | Sniper [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 7:46 pm ] | ||
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down | ||
So what you're suggesting Scarf is that they're mirroring how I feel?.
Not really...it's more like subconsciously reacting to your vibe.sometimes people have issues that have nothing to do with you or your vibe... for example, when I was depressed a long time ago I always walked around with a sad face and didn't want to talk to anyone - no matter how much their vibe was good. So it's not always your vibe...... |
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| Author: | peregrinus [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 7:56 pm ] | |
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down | |
Yeah...it means that they don't want to be approached/bothered. Nothing against you personally, but there could be a lot of different reasons for this, mainly involving personal issues in THEIR lives.
THIS!Think about times in your life when you have felt the same way. Think about why you did it and if it was anything to do with the other person or to do with you. -- Regarding the other point - mirroring.. it is a subconscious mirroring yes.. They are not doing it consciously, it just happens. You could say you are leading them with your vibe and they naturally follow it. If they are in the state above they will resist, as shown above. I do not advocate trying to batter through this resistance, if they want to shut you and others out, let them, there is usually a reason which is nothing to do with you. If you remove your ego from the equation you will see this. -- Scarf - if a woman waves at me, I cannot help but approach her, there is not much more open an invitation than that |
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| Author: | Resonance [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 8:21 pm ] | ||
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down | ||
I had a feeling I didn't personally provoke this reaction, I always thought that maybe it's because maybe they were intimidated by my looks.
I have to say there is an element to this. But it is not really about how you look, its about how you are feeling that registers on your face. If you are feeling great, not only would the girl more likely to be interested, but you would never have noticed them anyway (because you're too busy enjoying yourself). Instead, you will end up with women directly looking at you, waving at you**, sometimes (and sometimes often) approaching you. They are drawn to your joy. **If a woman waves at you, approach immediately. For example I have really shitty days and want nothing to do with anybody but people will still bother me even with the best intentions at heart, I handle it in the best possible manner so as not to be rude Then there are days where I feel great and want to spread this around and other people walk around with these depressed looks on their faces and completely ignore me. At best they Just wave to me and keep it moving....... So just know it isn't that black and white just go about your day doing what you do |
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| Author: | Scarf [ Sat Jan 15, 2011 11:11 pm ] | |
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down | |
So what you're suggesting Scarf is that they're mirroring how I feel?.
To be perfectly honest with you Alchemist..... ....that is not a bad way of looking at it. Not a bad way of looking at it at all. In fact, you could call it the ultimate truth. There is nothing wrong however with the advice given by the other most wonderful people here. This forum is really starting to rock with brilliance. |
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| Author: | Alchemist [ Sun Jan 16, 2011 10:33 am ] | |
| Post subject: | Re: Bowing their heads down | |
Not really...it's more like subconsciously reacting to your vibe.
That makes sense, so I definitely will see a difference when I feel better about life in general.
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